Guys are way to eager to just start sexting?

I get so many dms starting off with "nice ass" and sure thats sweat but id much rather actually get to know the person before sexting or talking more.
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Id rather guys that talk to me like an actual person rather than just talking about "my ass"
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  • My God. Someone who gets it. I feel like I'm reduced to "hot or not" when girls talk about my appearances. "Oh you got some muscle, hehe" "Oh he's so handsome" "Oh my God, you're kinda cute, hehe" "here's a pic of me in bed biting my toungue" "I wanna see you naked" "Show me yours and I'll show you mine" "Wanna see my boobs". Please stop people. Yeah, okau, I'm a horny dude. Yeah, okay, I get it, I look better than the average dude. Yeah, okay, I work out. None of that means I want to have sex with random ass people. Jesus Christ have mercy on us.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Sorry but here I have an opinion, and i hope you take it as I give it, with respect, but have you thought that is you take a picture that highlight a part of your body, some people will misunderstand?, Following the simple rule of action reaction, I believe and I may be wrong, that if you want normal comments, then you should show a normal picture. Please understand that I am saying this in a respectful way, and I mean no attack , or harm in any way, but to help you to get the normal connection with normal talking you seem to like.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I say in general not on here but other places. Yes I feel like you need to have a place with good rules and things to stop stuff like dick pics right off the bat etc. But I agree I would like to know said person before I start doing anything, I also want to know how they are at with sexting/roleplaying. Some just can't and it becomes boring

  • Oh yeah... this is the online equivalent to the dudes who wolf whistle out their car window as they drive by. They know they don’t stand a chance with you so they just start with the objectification... they know that’s all they’ll ever have with you.

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  • It’s funny how that can be so true online and just how they would never ever say that to you face to face. As far as they are concerned, they will never meet you anyway and thus feel free to indulge in their sexual fantasy with whomever they encounter online. I've never really tried the whole sexting thing, since I have a wife to keep it real with.

  • Next time take a pic of toilet paper hanging out of your butt and a toilet plunger in your hand and I guarantee they will not be interested in sexting about your ass.

  • If you want guys to begin thinking of you in non-sexual terms, perhaps you shouldn't have a picture of your ass as your profile picture, and maybe you shouldn't comment on other posts so openly about your sexual interests and proclivities. Do what you want; this is just a suggestion..

    • Sometimes people just like to troll in here. I troll them back. *grins*

  • If you put your ass out for public display, guys will only see you as a piece of meat that wants attention

  • When you post a profile pic with your beautiful ass prominent, you should expect that guys will notice and focus on it. Don’t be hard on them. On the other hand, getting to know the guy (and him getting to know you) can be rewarding by itself, but certainly helps when sexting.

  • If you show it, expect it to get commented on. That’s how the game works.

  • I agree with you , I'm a sexter , and when doing do I want it to be the best,, and in order for me to do that I need to feel you and that takes a few min. And the more I can feel the deeper and better it all becomes

  • I agree but maybe don’t expose your butt like that on your pfp or you’ll attract that in guys.

  • Yeah... Sorry to hear that.. I'm not sure how many guys are like that... I know I'm not one of those guys myself but I'm pretty sure there is a least a handful of decent guys on here... I'd just follow questions and ask to speak with guys that least sound respectful and proper on questions, responding to questions on here

  • we could talk about my ass if you liked lol

  • What you said make sense and i would rather get to know a person a beforehand.

  • I try to but you message me first with wanting to rip my clothes off lol

  • Here's a thought, maybe you should change your photo. Then they won't talk about your ass

    • Exactly what I was about to say hahaha

    • I'm beginning to wonder if that's her anyway

  • if it's any consolation they're lying about that ass

  • Your avatar pic does not invite those type of guys.
    It is a low class pose and attracts low class guys and low class comments.
    "Reap what you sow"

  • If you're talking about sexting on this app then the reason why is because of your pfp.

    They probably see it, no, they definitely see it as an invite for them to shoot thier shot.


    They're all like, "let's skip the formalities, lets get down to business".

  • Ass up head down, or legs over and next to my Head. More importantly would be the guy.

  • Your ass is your pfp.
    I wonder...

    • I noticed that too, like, what :D

    • @Torari Loool

  • I guess so. I just talk and if it leads to sexting, then it is what it is.

  • What else do you expect when you have a profile picture like that?

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