Not a guy, of course, but don't you think half of this is the personality of the guy? I don't like surprizes, so random gifts that I don't know that my boyfriend will like don't feel good to me. I like to give successful gifts.
Generic gifts fall flat. Gifts need to be something YOU'RE all excited about giving and even THEN you can fail. KNOW YOUR PERSON. Receipe for success.
And some guys LOVE lingerie and some shrug their shoulders over it. It's not the gift wrapping to THOSE guys. It's the gift.
Loads of guys are just, I want my woman naked is all. Forget spending money on lingerie I will just take off.
See what I mean?
THe actor Josh Duhamel was asked how he liked his wife dressed and his response was, "Naked." Amusing, honest AND sexy.
I feel the same. PJs are for sleeping. A naked man is what you need for action.
Well if prefer to give him both but I'd pick b
You can always get freaky
I'm not a woman, but I know lingerie is damn expensive. And ideally, she wouldn't even be wearing it for long, anyway. Lingerie is appreciated, but not necessary. I'd rather she bought me a quirky-but-useful gift (like a $100 grocery gift card, or maybe a PlayStation 5 if she was really making good money) instead of something I consider a novelty gimmick. I mean, women can own lingerie if they want, but don't need to own more than one or two pairs, meaning I'd feel guilty if she bought some just for me, and just to keep on for like a few minutes after she disrobes and surprises me with it, anyway.
So I voted for B, but I'll take the sex with that too, please! 🤗
Id rather see my girlfriend in some sexy outfit then getting a random gift
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Definitely lingerie, since the gift is "random". Who the hell wants a random gift they might not even like? Specially underwhelming if it's your girlfriend giving you the meaningless gift. She's supposed to know you better than that
unless the random gift is a car, sex is always better
Would also depend upon what car. Have you seen the fiat 500? But if it was a new demon... or maybe a hellcat...
I don't need anything , for Christmas I would even give her the money to buy the lingerie , thst would be the best gift to me
My girl already wears a lingerie often and I fuck her with or without it plenty of times. So I'll choose the random gift
I'd rather have a normal gift, because in a healthy relationship, the first option should already be happening on a regular basis, for the benefit of both of us, not just on special occasions as a gift for my sake.
You have a point
I don’t care about gifts all that much, but if you bought me something random then you don’t know me at all and you’re not even trying… If you buy yourself something (lingerie) and try to pass it off as something for me, then I’ll just lose all respect for you.
I'd love for a girl to get me a gift from the heart, sex is something we can do any day. if my girl got me this I would go down on her until she orgasms and is dead asleep from exhaustion shit, I would make sure her Christmas was the best sex night she has ever had.
I'd be bummed that she wouldn't have done the lingerie as a weekend gift and not use sex as a tool to replace her lack of a Christmas gift. Then I'd dump her.
LOL kidding!
But I would lose some respect for her.
For sure the sexy experience lingerie gift, experience gifts especially of sexual intimacy usually always out values monetary valuable things, I’m not sure there’s really any actual gift I’d choose over seeing her in some sexy lingerie and having some steamy intimate fun or something like that
I would rather be fucked than be given another pair of socks. Yes save your money and have sex instead.
Can I get lingerie as a gift?
Lol I would like as well
Lingerie surprise gift
I rather her buy lingerie for me to wear then we get freaky
Better be straightforward than random so A.
the gift i dont like sex being used for everything
Both, tootsie.
i find the latter actually not "that" random. i think most "manly" men would really appreciate that second gift.
i don't like lingerie or "sexual favors" as a gift. i see sex as something we both gain from. i don't want it to be a "gift". i want it to be mutually enjoyed. and if you don't enjoy wearing lingerie, don't do it.
I like that my fiancée is freaky hehe
My girlfriend buyi g herself lingerie to feel sexy and the get it on and her buying me sonething meabingful are booth wonderful.
Honestly im a crossdresser and i like when a woman buys me lengerie and her matching lengerie
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