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  • Yes but oftentimes a bit of hand action added into the mix can help tip me over the edge. It all depends on her oral skills, too (eg: does she use suction, does she give the frenulum lot of attention, does she vary the intensity and speed of her grip, etc.).

    It helps if she understands when to switch up technique, and when to stick with the same technique. Girls usually seem to dislike it when a guy changes technique a lot when he's going down on her, especially near orgasm. But as a guy I sometimes find that it's best when a girl alternates between a few different techniques throughout the blowjob. And only when I'm really close to cumming, that's when I'll guide her with vocalisations with "don't stop", "right there, that's it", etc. It gets easier as you learn to read his responses in the moment.

    So you might think of a blowjob as having 3 stages. First stage is the "teasing stage", lots of licking, gentle nibbling, working the shaft but only touching the tip very briefly, etc. This gets him more relaxed and in the moment for the pleasure that's about to follow.

    Then the second stage would be the main stretch, where you pull out whatever tricks you have up your sleeve. You can get pretty creative here, and make each blowjob different from the last (even if in reality, you're only using a few basic techniques-- just by stringing them together in different order, and playing with the "intensity" curve, you can give the illusion of variety, which guys love).

    Then the third stage is everything that happens once the guy is building up close to orgasm, and just needs tipping past the "point of no return". I imagine different guys respond to different techniques at this point, so you just need to find that one reliable technique that gets the end result for the guy you're with every time.

    Word of caution though: During the second stage, it's important not to "over-work" his dick, for example, gripping too hard with your hands and using very high suction around the tip of his penis throughout the entire blowjob. This can actually be quite numbing, so that by the time he's into the 3rd stage, he physically can't get over the finish line, because he's got desensitised because you pushed too hard in the 2nd stage.

    It could also be that he's got something on his mind that's preventing him being fully able to "let go". So assuming it's a boyfriend or a recurring sexual partner, you want to make sure he's become fully relaxed during the 1st stage of the blowjob, before you get into the meat and potatoes stuff lol

    • That said, I've had blowjobs where a girl made me cum in literally 10-15 seconds, and I've had others where even after 20-30 minutes, I couldn't "finish". I think a lot of other factors besides the blowjob itself can affect this, but I'm not sure there's a scientific breakdown for that lol. It just takes intuition and knowing your partner's needs and desires, etc.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Who's oral? Who is on the giving end? On the receiving end? Is there direct 👄 too genitals or mamories glands? I've come in all of them, but an obscure intimate conection that involved kissing and holding against adorable girl's cheeks (facial cheeks, not gluteus maximizes cheeks) of my penis and testicles while me nude and them in evening dress trying too make me feel loved and appreciated. My penis pressed against a cute classmates face as another simply presses her lips on my scrotum I came without warning.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I know some men who say that. Not trying to toot my own horn, "TOOT, TOOT" I made a few cum orally. They said they couldn't cum before. I just looked at him, smiled and winked lol.

  • I've proven that fact many times over the years! Certainly they can and do.

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  • It's not easy. It takes a dedicated and talented girl and at best 15-20 minutes, which is a LONG time I know. And things have improved - the first time took about 45 minutes, and a VERY, VERY determined girl.

  • Yes, but it's not that easy for me unless I am playing with her naked tits and/or fingering her at the same time. When I am receiving oral, I'm always thinking about fucking her. I kinda have to use my imagination.

  • Yes but I'd rather just use oral to warm up as men can take a few mins to reload to go again

  • Well problem with oral is a mouth is generally too big and loose so there's not enough squeeze going on and the fact that it's wet makes it even harder.

    That being said if she's got the skills for just her image going down on it could make me cum.

  • As long as she knows what she is doing or is willing to learn.

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