Guys, do you fear a world without low self-esteemed women that try to trap you with sex, regardless of you being married nonetheless?

[Bethany22]

I mean really, the main reason why Men are getting away with cheating on their partners is that there's always an uninformed girl about male psychology that's willing to have sex with him, even when she knows he's married. She's under this belief that he will leave his wife for her. There seems to be a lot more low self esteem women that give in to sex than there are of men that give in to marriage. Like, every guy on this website seems to know that statistic of women initiating the divorce 80% of the time, whereas the women on here don't seem to quote percentages of the low percentages of men leaving their wives for a woman that satisfies all of his sexual fantasies.

[MrOracle]

On a personal level, this is irrelevant to me, because I don't cheat in relationships, so whether or not some women make themselves available for casual sex with taken men or not makes no difference to me.

But on a broader level, you are absolutely correct when you state that lots of women are not taught about the realities of life and specifically of dating and marriage and the opposite sex - in fact, they are purposely deceived and given bad information, almost exclusively by other women, who are themselves miserable about their own choices and rather than warning younger women to make better choices, prefer to encourage younger women to make the same or even worse choices so that she'll have company in her misery. I see this CONSTANTLY, and not just with relationship advice, but all kinds of things. For example, I hear women giving other women the WORST financial advice all the time, encouraging horrible behavior that will put the woman in a horrible position if she follows the advice.

This is exactly why "red-pill" and similar topics exist: to teach men (and sometimes also women) how modern women actually think and behave, because it's NOT at all the same as most women say, and certainly not the same as men are taught to expect. And there is a small but growing movement of women who are teaching interested women how to be more traditional - and a key part of this is telling those women the truth about men and women. Most women are very wrong about men in many ways, and refuse to accept it when men try to explain the reality to them, because it goes against what they were taught (which was often either bad guesses of older women combined with radical feminist propaganda, with no data to back any of it up).

We might not like the truth - reality can be harsh and even cruel at times, for both men and women - but I think we'd all agree that we'd be able to make far better decisions if we at least knew what the truth was, and how to calculate our risks and dangers if we decided to go cowboy and leave the tour.

The world holds men responsible - we tend to get negative feedback constantly and immediately when we do something wrong or make a mistake - but women are rarely held to account, especially on small things, because no one wants to hurt their feelings, so they lie to them. Then, when something REALLY important happens, and it goes badly, it seems to come out of nowhere for so many women, and they fall apart, because they never understood the realities of the world. That's not good for women OR men - it's harmful to all of society.

[DextroShade]

This only happens to a small minority of men who are high level, most guys these days can't even get a date. It would be better for everyone if more women were traditional instead of hoes.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I don't have this fear. I fear the world we live in because of the lack of trust and respect and self-centered behavior that is prevalent in the fabric of society. Individuals would seek out others for love rather than their own personal desires. We would probably have a much happier planet.

[IceCreamSandwich]

No. It would be good if sex was never used as a trap against anyone.

[Billlewis]

Not at all; to the contrary, I thank goodness every day that the sands of time are slowly but inexorably shifting in favor of the superior female, and any scenario in which the female is firmly in control can only result in a better future for all men.

[NathanDavis]

that would imply that I am interested...

it isn't the case

[colaman94]

"there seems to be a lot of low self esteem women who give in to sex" now that line of yours in particular, or my slight paraphrase, i should've copied and pasted for a quote. That now says to me why some guys get all the women and im still slowly trawling through dating apps, swipe swipe, swipe swipe. Lol. 😁👀😋 Thank you for solving the mystery, and back to the broader ranging answer, indeed. Go figure, aye? (Eh?) 😊😴

[boggboss]

No this is not somthing I fear lol

[Dargil]

I don't fear anything about women, including doing without.

[FunkyMonkee]

Why would I be afraid of that?

[TooHot2Care]

?

Bro, what?

[love_conquers_lust]

When we raise women up, we raise both genders up. The men who fear a woman’s self-esteem are the ones who fear judgement. They’re the ones calling that same self esteem entitlement and privilege.

“Raising women up” doesn’t mean being a sycophant. It means having a spine to agree with them if they are morally correct, so we all grow and learn.

[Vegasrunner]

That is simply another example of women living in delusion

[loveslongnails]

Nah, there will always be people with low self-esteem, but women like that don't usually have enough confidence to try and trap a man with anything, ESPECIALLY sex.

[Nifrayu]

Not at all. I have no interest in such women.

[Likes2drive]

I haven’t any women willing to do that even when I was married, now I’m single and still can’t find anyone

[BigDog1989]

Women cheat too, and are actually more likely to than men. They're better at the cover up

[m33ladEmjay]

you dont know the word no?

[TallAnon]

No, why would we fear this? Sex isn't everything in life.

[colaman94]

Lol I'd say in a perfect world, it's at quite close to the top, quite close 👻😈

[TallAnon]

No, that would still only be physical needs. Love, prestige and self-actualization would be much higher.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Do you fear a world where actual self-esteem is recognized and respected?

[Heolurt]

There isn't a woman in the world that could ever trap me using sex, I'd have to care about sex in order for a trap to work on me. There's things I fear but a world where women don't use their bodies to get what they want is not even a concern to me.

[shortster]

I only fear a world of socialism/communism.