Guys: do you have any female friends that you AREN'T attracted to?
ManOnFireInfluencer
Or female friends who you really don't want to have sex with? I know it seems pretty rare, but I think it's possible. I would have sex with most of my female friends and acquaintances but I actually wouldn't with my very close one. She is beautiful and has guys coming after her all the time, even in the beginning I was into her before I met my ex at that time. But since then I have no feelings for her or no sexual attraction to her even though she is beautiful. Occasionally I will joke about her giving me head or fucking on the beach, but deep down I don't really want to and am just not attracted to her in the way that most other men are. She is a great friend and there's always something to learn from her, but there are still other things about her that actually do turn me off from wanting to sleep with her or date her.
So I guess I want to know if other men have experiences of not feeling any kind of attraction to a female friend?
I will not be “friends” with a woman I AM attracted to. I will either ask them on a date or if their not interested I’ll wish them best of luck. I’ll be friendly if I run into them again in public. But i sure as hell won’t waste my time and self respect hanging out with them. That’s self torture.
I do have one long time female friend who while attractive I have never had real feelings for. I don’t feel jealous seeing her with other guys.
Jealousy is the acid test. If you feel jealous seeing the girl with someone else than don’t be “just friends with them”
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mahdi_nXper 1
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I really dont have that many female friends;
But looking through the opinions, its obvious that most the women here are blind to the facts in front of them, They're all like "yeah I've had many guy friends who werent attracted sexually" Girl, its almost impossible !!!
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jamesgoldmanMaster
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Sure some are too young for me and some are too old
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kinggeorge007Xper 7
1 y
Not close ones.
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Rebecka33Xper 6
1 y
I've had guys say they can treaty be my friend because it would be to hard stop be just friends or else that if I wanted more and they couldn't give that they'd feel worse so didn't even make the friends hanging out zone.
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Jouth
1 y
what?
Rebecka33
1 y
@Jouth didn't even make the friends zone with some because they wanted more and to hard to be just friends with me or the opposite if they were friends and felt I wanted more later and they couldn't give that had for them to hurt me.
Rebecka33
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ConfidentandchillXper 4
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I would say most of my female friends do not appeal to me sexually
They are amazing people and good friends but not once have I imagined them in the sack
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NotGuruXper 5
1 y
Of course, who wants to fuck everyone? There are women you are interested in, then there are some you aren't. And priorities keep changing, so you may start wanting to have sex with someone you never thought in the past 10 years.
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MaxQEXper 1
1 y
I can't say that I do. I mean I would just straight up do any of my friends and not even think twice
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genericname85Master
1 y
yeah, a few actually.
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Grond21Guru
1 y
Yes. I have several close female friends who sexually interested in. And we've been friends for years
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Hairylegs222Xper 7
1 y
Every girl I tried to be only friends with gave me obvious hints they wanted me to make a move on them. I'm still friends with one of them and she's happily married with kids.
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VegasrunnerExplorer
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This is a great question. My theory has always been that the average guy shouldn't have female friends because most guys dont understand how to use them for their benefit. However if you are an advanced Alpha male that holds an abundance mentality female friends can be an invaluable resource. I have a couple of tricks that I use w/ female friends thar have allowed me to pick up additional girls.
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FreykeXper 6
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All of them except for one.
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AdronicusXper 5
1 y
The only female friends I have are ones I'm not attracted to. Why? I have no wish to be an emotional tampon & suffer in silence,
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ManOnFire
1 y
Good perspective.
Luopio27Yoda
1 y
Had many of those. One day, I just got bored of all my 900+ facebook friends and deleted them all. Deleted all my social media accounts.
Friendship does not work if only one is atracted to the other. If both are atracted to the other, it can lead to relationship.
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Iron_ManMaster
1 y
Since when are female friends attractive I never had one
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Sparkie460Guru
1 y
I have several women friends that I would never have sex with. I love a couple of them like my own sister
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mydadsbuyingmilkXper 2
1 y
yeah i do but if they acting like a mom.. ima slide in tho
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Blueeyes81Guru
1 y
Yes but we are friends less by my choice and more because circumstances forced us to spend crazy amount of time together (work). I don't seek females as friends. Normally if I become friends with a woman its because I was initially attracted to her. If I wasn't I never would have put forth any effort to get to know her in the first place.
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Scarecrow13Explorer
1 y
Yes, I have some but I have far fewer close friends now than I used to.
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12 114I will not be “friends” with a woman I AM attracted to. I will either ask them on a date or if their not interested I’ll wish them best of luck. I’ll be friendly if I run into them again in public. But i sure as hell won’t waste my time and self respect hanging out with them. That’s self torture.
I do have one long time female friend who while attractive I have never had real feelings for. I don’t feel jealous seeing her with other guys.
Jealousy is the acid test. If you feel jealous seeing the girl with someone else than don’t be “just friends with them”
I really dont have that many female friends;
But looking through the opinions, its obvious that most the women here are blind to the facts in front of them,
They're all like "yeah I've had many guy friends who werent attracted sexually"
Girl, its almost impossible !!!
Sure some are too young for me and some are too old
Not close ones.
I've had guys say they can treaty be my friend because it would be to hard stop be just friends or else that if I wanted more and they couldn't give that they'd feel worse so didn't even make the friends hanging out zone.
what?
@Jouth didn't even make the friends zone with some because they wanted more and to hard to be just friends with me or the opposite if they were friends and felt I wanted more later and they couldn't give that had for them to hurt me.
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I would say most of my female friends do not appeal to me sexually
They are amazing people and good friends but not once have I imagined them in the sack
Of course, who wants to fuck everyone? There are women you are interested in, then there are some you aren't. And priorities keep changing, so you may start wanting to have sex with someone you never thought in the past 10 years.
I can't say that I do. I mean I would just straight up do any of my friends and not even think twice
yeah, a few actually.
Yes. I have several close female friends who sexually interested in. And we've been friends for years
Every girl I tried to be only friends with gave me obvious hints they wanted me to make a move on them. I'm still friends with one of them and she's happily married with kids.
This is a great question. My theory has always been that the average guy shouldn't have female friends because most guys dont understand how to use them for their benefit. However if you are an advanced Alpha male that holds an abundance mentality female friends can be an invaluable resource. I have a couple of tricks that I use w/ female friends thar have allowed me to pick up additional girls.
All of them except for one.
The only female friends I have are ones I'm not attracted to. Why? I have no wish to be an emotional tampon & suffer in silence,
Good perspective.
Had many of those. One day, I just got bored of all my 900+ facebook friends and deleted them all. Deleted all my social media accounts.
Friendship does not work if only one is atracted to the other. If both are atracted to the other, it can lead to relationship.
Since when are female friends attractive I never had one
I have several women friends that I would never have sex with. I love a couple of them like my own sister
yeah i do but if they acting like a mom.. ima slide in tho
Yes but we are friends less by my choice and more because circumstances forced us to spend crazy amount of time together (work). I don't seek females as friends. Normally if I become friends with a woman its because I was initially attracted to her. If I wasn't I never would have put forth any effort to get to know her in the first place.
Yes, I have some but I have far fewer close friends now than I used to.