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Guys do you like it when a girl initiates sex?

I know most guys consider themselves. to be dominant so I'm curious. #CuriousChar
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  • I think the dominance comes into play after the initiating.

    For instance she can start rubbin and kissin on him, etc. but if he's established himself as the dominant one then they both know that she isn't challenging his position. She's just letting him know she's ready to play.

    I think the dominance struggle only comes into play with two people who are equally dominant or two people who haven't quite established who's the dom and who's the sub.

    Could always be an issue, too, for a couple where both of them are switches, bc they both may be feeling particualrly dominant that day.

  • Lol I'd prefer it if the other person initiated next to everything, I'm a little bitch.
    But I'd def. initiate sex if I'm horny enough.

  • My boyfriend likes that and I would think a good amount of guys like that as well.

    • Poll shows that. I know if a few guys that don't. That's why I asked.

    • I would question those dudes sanity. XD

    • Oh I did lol.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Just because she initiates doesn't mean I suddenly feel like I'm in a submissive position, and not all sex is about who is in charge. The fact that she initiates means she is horny, and wants me to see and touch her naked body. What is there possibly for me to complain about?

    • Just a question mate.

  • I've never heard a guy say

    "Ugh, my girlfriend wants to have sex with me. Maybe if I ignore her shell think I am sleeping and shell go masturbate in the bathroom".

    • Some guys take that as a control thing and they don't like it. You'd be surprised.

    • Fuck control lol... being tied up is awesome

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  • I'm a guy so I totally understand this😂
    Yes. All guys love it when his girl initiates sex, because it means she loves him and actually likes to have sex with him.

    It works as a major turn on and reassurance.
    Sometimes guys wonder if the girl really wants to or not. Makes it seem like a one man show

  • My boyfriend has said he would like for me to do it occasionally yes. (He does mostly)

  • I almost lost my virginity this way on a first date - I hadn't thought to bring condoms so I declined. Thankfully, she called back the night after :)

    • That same girl (to whom if it wasn't clear I did end up losing my virginity) used to say that good sex is about effectively communicating desire. Words of wisdom! People inject so much bullshit into their relationships thinking it will make their SO/Crush/Spouse/etc want them more but as you gain more experience you begin to realize that the vast majority of romantic conflict comes from people not being honest with each other and is completely artificial. That isn't to say we can ever effectively communicate what we feel 100% of the time: being honest when the stakes feel so high is really hard - but it's a goal we should at least strive for.

  • I would go with yes, but only if it's a girl that I want. I really don't care much about being the one who is initiating, and a girl who is initiating usually more sexual, for better and worse.

  • YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES!! YES

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  • who doesn't like that?

  • I would love it.

  • I love if if my partner initiates from time-to-time. And it don't gotta mean that just cause she initiates that she's in charge. ;)

    • Ohhhhh nice spin. But I'm in charge anyway 😋

  • Hell to the yeah!

  • Abso-fucking-lutely

  • I don't just "like" it. I strongly prefer it.

  • No, I don't.

  • In fact I would be bothered if she never initiates it herself.

  • I'd love it and it would be nice to have the woman initiate sometimes (shows they want it to and not just doing it for us). I think women need to initiate more all around, not just sex. Asking guys out for example also.

  • I feel wanted!! But, I like starting, as well... It should be a 2 way street

  • Well yeah lol, I don't think I've ever heard any guy say well damn my girl wants to have sex with me, what an unlucky guy I am lol.

    • You'd be surprised

    • Lol I admit I probably would be.

  • I am supprised by the comments from the guys xx

    • Why are you surprised that guys like having their gals initiate something that gives them intense pleasure?

  • Haha of course they do

  • of course. nothing hotter if i allready know she wants it.

  • If I want to have sex with her sure.

    • Well yeah Ty lol

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