Guys, do you see your girlfriend/wife as just a hole?

Guys, do you see your girlfriend/wife as just a hole?
Guys, do you really see your girlfriend as just a hole to put your penis in? As far as that her age, looks, face, character and personality don't matter at all?
That might explain why 100% of men stop going out with me when I say no to sex on the first date. Is there any way how a woman can be seen as more than a walking vagina on legs? And how do you do that?
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  • We had sex the first time we met and we've been together for 6 years now and married for 4. She's all the things for me.

  • I don’t know sometimes it’s tempting to just think that way but anyone who actually thinks that way has the maturity of an animal. But i guess that’s what we are animals…a walking vagina lol

    I mean once you’re past the first date hopefully there is more than just surface stuff to keep a relationship on the run

  • I don't treat women like that, they are human beings and we should treat each other the way we want to be treated.

  • Absolutely not. I estimate that sex will only be 10% of my wife and I's relationship. (And it will be 0% prior to the wedding.). So she is SO much more than what's between her legs!!

  • Absolutely not! I’m not looking for a hole. I’m looking for a life partner.

  • no, definitely not

  • Some do but most don't. You just met guys that only wanted to get in your pants. Thanks for generalizing all men.

  • no of course not, i see as many things other than a hole. She's my partner, the person who i can chill with, a person to tease or be tease by, someone to laugh with/ at, someone who can be the mother of my kids, a pilliow, most importantly she's only the one person i can feel safe around and not be judge

  • My girlfriend is more than a walking vagina. I don't have sex on the first date either. I probably will make you wait longer than you want. So if all I saw was a cum depository I wouldn't have sex after at least 3 months.

  • Do you provide any other reason to stick around? Like do you talk about your future, what you want out of it, what you need to reach there and what you offer in turn?

    Every relationship boils down to being of use to eachother. Since you don't want to be of sexual use... What else do you bring in to the relationship?

  • Not at all I see them as a gift that God sent me

  • No! Two holes. Three if you’re desperate.

  • I would be impressed with that. Would probably think you didn't like me much. But I would find out.

  • Any boyfriend or husband who thinks like that is an A-HOLE! DTMF!!!

  • Those guys are interested in ONS not a relationship. Quite simply you're meeting the wrong guys.

  • Women see themselves just as holes. And they think that hole is whole.

  • Nope, should I? Either way I would not be happy.

  • Actually it's 3 holes

  • The hell no

  • I see them as humans and not as a hole for satisfaction.

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