Guys, do you see your girlfriend/wife as just a hole?

Guys, do you see your girlfriend/wife as just a hole?
Guys, do you really see your girlfriend as just a hole to put your penis in? As far as that her age, looks, face, character and personality don't matter at all?
That might explain why 100% of men stop going out with me when I say no to sex on the first date. Is there any way how a woman can be seen as more than a walking vagina on legs? And how do you do that?
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  • nope not at all.

  • Basically yes. What else would she be?

  • Depends on the guy

  • No she is a precious treasure to me irreplaceable

  • ROFL. This is why bimbos with few to no standards, low to little if not no self-respect or esteem, wonder why men only want one thing & bitch like imbeciles about "poor me" as a result.

    Now dimbo there are plenty of men who see women as more than a hole. Unfortunately for you your standards are gutter trash low which is why you don't know this. And because you've fucked your way around half the city no decent guy who'll treat you with respect will ever be interested.

    • I'm stil a virgin though

  • Nah!
    The intercourse between 2 people's is just the total satisfaction for both.
    However i dont have any girlfriend/wife so iam not familiar with sex! I'm virgin!!!

  • Maybe you could try going out with guys you typically wouldn't?

  • No, for a wife I see sex as a bonding moment. Its something that I see that only the spouses share because they love each other. It may be the most valuable thing for many husbands and it may also be the one thing that a wife gives her husband that defines how she fulfills his needs as a wife. To be a good wife there must be resolution to the differences and a daily establishment of peace in the home. If the wife blocks the husband from sexual connection, then most men will struggle with lust when their cravings kick in and he may struggle with withdrawal in great proportions for the first 40 days to 6 months. The wife provides that need. As a dating lifestyle a true love is about knowing the other person outside of sex and seeing if that is someone to enjoy life with for the part of life that remains.

  • i sure as hell don't. i been in love with my significant other for over 4 years now and never saw my love as a walking hole or a walking vagina and anybody that sees their spouse in that regards or that manner doesn't deserve to be with them or in a relationship at all. it's called treating others with respect and treating others the way you want to be treated

  • No, not at all... I see her as two holes.

    But seriously, I don't see a woman as a hole and I don't know any guys who do. Who are all these guys and where do you find them? Strip clubs?

    • Not Strip Clubs, eHarmony and Hinge

  • Not at all. Sounds like something a man hating feminist would say about men though.

  • I view women as a potential life partner.