Guys, does getting your partner pregnant turn you on?

Question

Does getting your girl pregnant (or the thought of it) turn you on?

nightdrot · Accepted Answer

Absolutely! When I have sex with my girlfriend - and, truth in advertising, we have lived together for over a decade and have three children - the idea that I am mounting her and putting my seed in her, for whatever reason, turns me wildly on. Sometimes all she has to say is, "put a baby in me" and I all but lose control.

My girlfriend and I tend, in any case, to a very primal and animal kind of sex. Not always, but generally, and it makes it very instinctive. The male instinct - at the most basic level - being to breed a female and reproduce. It sounds kind of heartless, but it is how the species has perpetuated itself for several hundred thousand years.

Just the idea of my girlfriend, or really any woman, giving her naked body to me, that she is accepting the most basic thing I have to give as a man - my sperm, my seed - to be used and give me the most beautiful gift appeals. It appeals sexually and romantically and is a wild turn-on, even when I know in my mind that I don't want pregnancy.

As I say, nature has made it that the human male's natural instinct is to reproduce and I suppose - especially given that my girlfriend and I do tend to that more primal kind of sex. It being funny, by being reduced to our most animal selves it is like we are opening ourselves up to the deepest sharing. We are accepting each other as we are - primal and unconditional.

Also, when my girlfriend was pregnant our sex was also amazing. The first trimester was a bit rough, but after that, she is one of those women whose sex drive went off the charts. For me, the idea of being inside a woman who was carrying a life that I made - strange as it may sound, baby bump and all, I never thought that she was sexier or more beautiful.

In fairness, I have gotten two other women pregnant. One had a miscarriage and did not even tell me she was pregnant till some years later. The other had an abortion without telling me. To this day it has been the most soul crushing thing that has ever happened to me. I miss that baby so much.

Still, even with all that, the idea of getting my girlfriend - or any woman - pregnant just totally turns me on. As I say, it adds something, some sense that I am proving my manhood and my girlfriend is subordinating herself to my natural needs and instincts. It sounds, as I say, a bit retrograde, but man does it work and I can only add in mitigation that it turns my girlfriend on too.

Zeus_66 · Accepted Answer

When my wife was pregnant with our first, it didn't turn me on until she started filling out. Then I saw a whole different beauty in her I never saw before. That was the turn on. When we got pregnant the second time, I was turned on from the very beginning.

Good question.

Stellaluna84 · Accepted Answer

It definitely is a turn on for me... can’t wait to make it happen!

SoapySandwich · Answer

The thought of it can be a turn on yes but getting her pregnant doesn't sound like a turn on for me at all unless I want to have kids with her.

Gooblegobble · Answer

Yes. The thought of it, more than the actual fact of the matter.

Berethor · Answer

I have some mix feelings about that, I can see how it can be appealing, basically it makes sex more meaningful for better and for worse, and it's the main purpose behind sex, biology-wise.

SjE78 · Answer

one of my kinks is impregnation fantasy but only with someone i'm with and only if they are ok with it... otherwise it loses its' appeal

postempestas · Answer

y'all sick for this

Kaneki05 · Answer

Instinctual turn on yes. But otherwise no.  The body should naturally be turned on by the thought of doing it. So if you do feel this way your normal there congrats lol.

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

No lol.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

if she lives a healthy life style and maintains it during the pregnancy. then yes it can be a major turn on to get a female partner pregnant. if your planning and/or hoping to have children together as a couple.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

I have a vasectomy of my partner gets pregnant this is going to get really interesting!

Scoliosis-Smith · Answer

Pretty much everything about getting her pregnant turns me on. From the initial creampie to her swelling belly and breasts. It is one of my biggest fantasies and I look forward to doing it.

bowenw · Answer

I would say it's not a turn on as it's normally the thought of having sex with someone you're into that's the turn on.

MathTeacher · Answer

Turns me on a lot. I'm very fertile

pigoat · Answer

Oh she fat

broken_heart_at_48 · Answer

Maybe not so much the getting her pregnant part but pregnant chicks are hot

ColHathi · Answer

Not in the slightest.

magiusX26 · Answer

somewhat

lokeshdh00 · Answer

Can't say, but I think only if partner takes care of what she wears and how she takes care of her face. But I think I will be more worried about her health than being turned on !