Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Ugh, this is so annoying. im a virgin and never been in a relationship. i know. tragic. in all my 22 years. finally had the courage to go out with a guy, and man starts talking about sex after 20 mins. da fuck? this is such a turnoff. like dude, i need to know if you are crazy first before i do anything remotely intimate with you. i am so tired of this crap hookup culture. like will i die alone and never marry just because i won't have sex on the first date?
since i am a virgin, i am honestly kind of scared. i don't want to get any potential STDs from the guy, or get pregnant or hurt. i am so unlucky, so i will probably end up having triplets my first time. i love babies, but ideally i would like to be married and have a good established career and home before i have babies because i want to give them the best opportunities in life.
so the idea of sex after 1 or 2 months just grosses me out. i want to wait at least 3 or 4 months before i get intimate with a guy. would you guys lose interest in a girl if she made you wait? of course, the same guys that expect sex after the first date to see if there's "chemistry" are also the same guys that find it extremely shocking when a woman has had sex with more than 1 man.
look, i need to know that i can trust a man before i get intimate with him. i need to make sure he isn't a fuckboy and just using me and i need to make sure he isn't crazy. is that too much for some of y'all to understand?
****i am not saying all men are like this, it just seems that most are. like when the heck did it become the norm that you have to have sex with every person you date? maybe you have 10 dates with 10 different people, but can't you just be intimate with 2 of them?
Guys how soon do you expect sex in a new relationship?
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What Girls & Guys Said
2 35I won't allow a virgin to have sex with me before we've been dating six months. I allow a nonvirgin to have sex with me after 3 months though. Ultimately it's her choice as long as it's within 2 years.
I’m gonna let her decide when that happens if I ever get one.
Some guys want it straight away personally i want to wait till i am ready
till ready? when are you usually ready? second date?
It's ok to get to know someone first and if you start to love each other 3 or 4 months is fine.
About 3 months or so preferably but I'm open to about 1-3 months
A lot of us would like it before the first date.
So if you want a guy who would wait, be careful who you pick.
Did you use any dating apps?
There is no set time limit don't do anything until your ready I don't care what anybody says you don't owe anybody anything. Your body your rules
Make them await till you're ready.. Seems like you have a 3-4 month time frame set so keep it like that if they can't wait then they wasn't really interested in getting to actually know you for you.
Depends on her.
You should realize that guys view women in two categories... those who they are interested in having sex with, and those they are interested in a more serious relationship with. If you are not looking for casual sex then just ignore guys like the one you described here.
Nvm...
a lot did then got in love
If wanna lose it get a fake boy friend
You're going to have to define relationship. I like to keep a 3 girl rotation that way odds are at any point usually one is putting out.
If we're in a relationship and not dating I expect it early and often. If I'm making myself exclusive to her she needs to up the antenna or I'll find a girl that will.
great. to quality women who aren't whores you would just be seen as a red flag and as someone not worth the effort.
That's fine I don't need every woman. Just 3 at a time.
I don't participate in hookup culture and some expect sex on the third date but I don't.
Anywhere from a week to 4months it's all about comfort with the person.
Virgin's always make it out to be a massive deal but it's really not after the first couple times it becomes a lot more relaxed and normal.