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Sexual Health Guys, if a random girl asked you to have sex with her, would you?
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Imagine a girl walks up to you and says "Would you have sex with me?".... what would you do?
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Guys, thanks very much for your comments. It has been really interesting knowing your thoughts. The reason I asked this was because I saw a youtube video of a girl doing a social experiements - she asked 100 guys. (One old guy called the police on her). 50% of them agreed to it, and many others that said no were choking on their words (some had their gf's standing next to them, and the gf prompts him to say no - lol).
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8 65I would be extremely suspicious that she had an ulterior motive like robbing me or something, so I'd probably say no.
Fair enough... the reason I am asking is I saw a social experiment on YouTube - half the guys said yes to her, the other half had a hard time saying no but had a gf.
I would. I'd just use a condom and...
Thanks for your comment - would she have to be attractive, or would this not matter to you?
Yeah, at least somewhat.
No I would not I have morals and values.
Thanks for your comment - I asked because I saw a youtube video, half the guys said yes and many that said no had trouble saying no but had gf's
I'd assume it's some kind of prank or something like this.
Sounds too good to be true.
What if she reassured you it wasn't a prank... she just had unmet needs and thought you were hot
I'd still be suspicious, but since I actually "helped" a few women in my neighborhood (that are in their late 30s / early 40s) to "fulfill" their "needs" so to say, I guess I wouldn't mind helping again. What would make me highly suspicious is that I don't know this woman. At least I knew those women I "helped" before, you know. I'd use my own condoms, since I wouldn't trust her enough (maybe she poked some holes in them, who knows) and I would probably politely refuse drink/food she's offering. Plus I'd pick some neutral territory to have sex (like hotel room or something, but not my or her place). As I said before, it sounds too good to be true, so I would be extremely suspicious and cautious. If everything went well, I'd let her know that she can ask for help whenever she wants as long as I'm single.
That's fair enough - if it's a complete stranger you have to be wary of their motives. So how did these 30/40 year olds tee this up with you? Are they single too?
Due to rather bad female:male ratio in my town (I'd say about 2.5 women per 1 man), they are all single, some of them were never married and all are obviously lonely. And they're all actually quite good looking. As I said, I live in a same neighborhood with them, some of them live in my house (we have like this tall 12 story building with multiple apartments on each floor), so sometimes I open doors for them if we're entering the building at the same time and/or help to carry their groceries to their doorsteps. In return some of them sometimes invite me for a cup of tea. We chat, we laugh, you know, just have a good time. Such "tea invitation" start to happen more and more often, and at some point a woman says that she is way too lonely, doesn't feels like a woman anymore, feels undesirable and wants to have sex. Who am I to refuse in this case?
You're a good man :-) I'm married but it's not going well - I feel lonely, unwanted and undesirable :-( My daughter is the only one in this house that shows me any affection and then it's not obviously of a sexual nature.
In this case you should have an honest conversation with your husband. Be honest about how you feel. If he loves you, he'll try to improve, but keep in mind that it takes dedication from both sides. If after honest conversation he'll start giving you more attention, keep it up yourself: dress more sexy, wake him up with a blowjob etc. Also, take a mutual vacation somewhere exotic to spice things up. Or try new things in bed (bondage comes to mind). If he doesn't cares after honest conversation, talk to your daughter, explain the details (prepare her mentally) and get a divorce. In that case pretty much your marriage is over. One important thing I forgot to state: not only I will refuse to "help" if I have a girlfriend, I will also refuse to "help" if she has a husband/boyfriend. In my mind cheating is immoral. However, if you'd be living in my neighborhood and we'd both were single, I'd "help" if you ask for it :P
Thanks for your advice. Yes we have talked and the affection/sex is not the only issue... If it wasn't for my daughter I would have left him ages ago. I now decided if things aren't better between us by the time I finish studies mid year (I work too) then I'm going to divorce him.
Fair enough. However, don't give up (yet) on trying to improve relations and have an honest conversation. If conversation won't go well, talk to your daughter, prepare her mentally and once you finish your studies, get a divorce.
I wouldn't cause I wouldn't trust her.
What would make you trust her?
to be honest I don't even know. She would at least have to talk to me some and not just say lets have sex cause that just makes me think she is up to something.
Yeah, that would be a bit suspect...
I don't know man she might have some kind of STD and I don't get done down with std's
Yeah, not many people are keen on catching them... what if she told you she was totally clean?
If she's clean then I see no quarrel with casual sex. Some guys go out looking for the same I see no problem with her doing it so I'm game
Yeah it is interesting that most people accept that guys do it but do not accept a girl doing it.
Yup I'm very open minded but I keep my thoughts to myself or I'll look like the weirdo or something smh
No that's disgusting. I don't know who she is and wheere she's been.
Fair enough... but guys hit on women all the time without knowing who they are or where they've been.
Not all guys. I would get to know her first, including finding out if she has an STD.
True, not all guys but a lot do.
Well a lot of guys aren't that great, so...
I don't stick my dick in unknown places.
So how well do you have to know her beforehand? I mean, if it wasn't hte first thing she said but you had only met a girl that night and seemed to get on, would you do it with her then?
I'd first want to know that she is clean of STDs.
Fair enough - would you ask her that?
Yes, better safe than sorry
I'd be afraid of and STD so of course not she mightve done it with just about anyone
Yeah that's a fair comment. If that wasn't her opening line, you just met someone at a bar and got chatting and things went well - would you then be more inclined... I mean, would you sleep with a girl you just met?
to be honest I once got a blowjob froma girl I just met that night and I still to this day don't know her name. but god never again
why never again? What happened?
If I wasn't in a relationship I'd definitely have sex with a random hot girl. I wouldn't cheat on my gf no matter how hot the girl was
Hahaha... that's cool :-)
No, I don't know who she is so i would not. I'am not like that haha
So how well would you have to know her?
well i would only do it if i was in a relationship in all honesty.
actually happened to me xD i said i had a girlfriend. of course i am actually single ^^
Interesting thanks for your answer. Why didn't you take her up on her offer?
because at the time i was a virgin so i was scared that i couldn´t perform xD also she wasn´t quite my type. now i´d probably say yes if she was decent looking... even though i´m still not that experienced.
its been so long since I've had it that id probably say yes. if she wants it why would i refuse? t would be a nice change for a while lol
I hear you! ... loneliness can drive us to do things we may not normally have done...
loneliness is horrible, but situations like that rarely happen. if it did with my luck shed probably be a hooker lol, even if a woman really wants sex, odds are she's not going to flat out say it. theyre usually more subtle.
Yes, very true - I don't know any woman that has ever done this.
Meh I prefer to be the asker.
So you wouldn't on account of the fact that you like to initiate?
If they caught me at an especially horny moment I'd probably say yes.
I almost always decline. I worry about STDs and it just feels dishonorable. I love the compliments though.
That's cool, thanks for your answer. I get what you mean about feeling dishonorable
No I would'nt. Just as catfishes, a girl doing that is highly suspicious. Ending up with an STD or tied in the back of a car? No thanks
What if that wasn't her opening line - that you just met her and had a good conversation with her before hand, would you sleep with her on the first night of meeting her?
Nah, if I really liked her and she suggests sex I would try to post-pone it, try to go out more with her. I will not be in for a night stand and if she insists on it, it will still be suspicious. Decent girls dont do that..
Fair enough, you sound like a really nice guy :-) I think emotionally broken girls tend to do that...
Thank you, and yes I agree :)
if she's hot IMA KILL THAT P*SSY
LOL!!!
I at least knew the girls i one night stand id never jump into bed with a girl i barely met
Thanks for your comment. How well do you have to know them?
Lol well enough to know they won't drug me and leave me in a bathtub full of ice with no kidneys!
Yeah, no one wants that... so you'd have to be friends first?
Yes its a good idea to be friends first of course to be completely honest id never have sex with a woman i wouldn't want a relationship with
So you've never done it just for fun?
Nope never
Fair enough. Thanks for your comments
Your welcome but one thing about me is im one of those super cautious men i believe there's consiquences to your actions and i tend to over think things
Yeah I know what you mean... I sometimes over think things and am over cautious. And occasionally I let myself go and think - stuff i, I'm just gonna do it...
Nope.
Why not? is it only because of a worry about STDs or is there some other reason?