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Guys if your soon-to-be wife had a bachelorette party, would you be upset if there was a male stripper at the party?
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19 89I mean I wouldn't be happy about it, but I wouldn't make a big deal about it.
Because then there be no reason why I can't have strippers at mine
The stripers have nice cocks
And I'm sure the stripper is going to have nice tits ass pussy
Yeah I guess I should have read more of the colonists before I responded to that because if you're just wanting a stripper male stripper to f*** then yeah I be pissed if you're just looking then you're just looking there's two different things just posed to be like the other guy said a night of fun. Not a night of sex
Anal why didn't guys are hypocritical because you know damn good and well you have strippers to your f****** bachelor party but she can't have strippers at her party that's bulshit
Yes.
I am married, neither of us believe in strippers, neither had them.
Paying another opposite sex person for sexual entertainment is anti exclusiveness and marriage.
I would have called off the wedding. I don't marry girls who are licking whip cream off other guys and getting dry humped by another guy.
Those of the slutty drunk, hook up culture are the ones who think this is normal for monogomous people to do.
My wife and I didn't do strippers.
I personally think strippers are disgusting.
My wife would have been heart broken if I pay some whore to get naked and grind around in my life.
Lap... not life.
Looking and no touching, no.
Huh?
I would not be upset if the stripper was not touched and did not touch my fiance.
The striper ganna give her lap dances she the one being celebrated
That would not be acceptable.
Okayy
If I'm to the point of proposing and we're that close to marriage. No lol. My trust in her would be so deep it wouldn't be a concern to me. I'm sure she'd be excited, weirded out and feeling like the whole thing is a mess anyways with her girls going crazy around her.
I don’t want a wife period
As long as he doesn't do more than grind on her lap. If she wants to feel a little wet in the crotch from someone really hot, then that's fine. She's marrying me and she may be looking at him but I'm the only one that gets to hold her.
If it was planned to have him there and I was in the loop of it all I dont see why there should be a problem. As long as no effort is made to keep anything hidden about it who cares. If your soon to be marrying this woman hopefully you know her well enough to know whether or not she can be trusted.
Nah, really bachelorette party or not, if you are taking the big step to marriage you have to trust one another. Seeing a naked body can be arousing a lot of the time. I wouldn't blame anyone for watching strippers. If you do have a problem with it there is a good chance it's because in you head you thinking "cheating". If you think that, it means you don't trust them. If you don't trust them don't get married.
What a load of bullshit.
What part do you disagree with?
Trust is overly used as some all encompassing excuse for all types of things. You view everything through the narrow guise of "are they gonna have sex" and then throw out the red herring of any objection to anything as "mistrust" and that they must not trust me to not screw someone. Having actual sex with the stripper is not even part of the conversation. You see... trust can work both ways. One can say they trust their mate to not pay someone of the opposite sex to strip naked and dance and grind on them. Not doing stuff like that is pretty normal for monogymous relationships and marriage.
Yeah, I guess you're right... If you 60 years old. Kiss those days good bye. Marriage had a good run but we were never meant to have just one partner. It just doesn't work like that anymore. you're setting yourself up for failure if you get married. I wish it was different but humans are terrible creatures. But with all that being said, while someone is married the least you can do is be honest and don't sleep around (unless that's the couple's arrangement). If you are trying to seem like the holier than thou dude on this site, I would just stop lying to yourself. It seems like you're implying that you couldn't be bothered by the sex that you're attracted to. Your eyes are meant for only one person. If that's the true implication you're probably a serial killer or something equal to. If you can't enjoy looking at a nude (gender) that is attractive then your cheating yourself out of one of the greatest sights imaginable from your everyday sights. This wouldn't include staring at the Grand canyon or the stars above or the Pyramids. This is a thing of beauty that you can see a lot easier. Don't cheat yourself out of a simple pleasure that is harmless. Finally, I am not sure if you have looked at a calendar in the last 20 years but it's now 2020. It's a lot more common than you would think for people to be somewhere where a stripper is working. Pre-marital parties, work parties, guy and/or girls weekends away. It happens. You will be ok. People typically don't have intercourse when they see them. It's just a group enjoying what we are attracted to. No one dies. Kids go to school the following Monday. Marriages are not ruined. People can do people things BUT sometimes it can be ruined by a whore.(male or female) and those people should get married in the first place.
Not at all so long as nothing happened
Exactly. Bachelorette party is there so you end your girl's life. You become a women. And as long as she just had eyes candy and nothing too far. Its all good
Okay thanks
does it matter if he tells. do you know everyone, and how old are you.
She wouldn't be my future wife at that point lol
Really?
Yes 🤷♂️
Bope. I trust her to behave herself
I dont think my boyfriend would mind. He trusts me. Look but dont touch.
Now if he was to strip for me. That's a different story.
My feminist ex-s would have had a gangbang bachelorette party and one now has the mixed multiple-father kids to prove it and she is not certain of the fathers to boot.
Nope. Because if she didn't love me she has 1,000 other guys available on Tinder.
The stripper is the least of my worries. If she agrees to stay with me over them then I've already won.
Here Stefan Molyneux talks to a male stripper. At one point he explains what goes on when he strips for hen parties. This might change your mind.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UY5lYjfFHYg
@englisc Yeah I already know. In fact, married women in their 30's and 40's hit on me when I worked in a warehouse. Bunch of Filipino and Southeast Asian women. They would check out the security guards and joke about their butts and muscles. Very grabby and touchy feely. 🤷🏻♂️ I know there's BJ's and all that crap but you're marrying the person. If you can't trust them then what's the point.
Flirting is a lot different to having sex with someone - although it still says a lot about the respect that person has for their partner. With the trust thing, if you can't trust the person you shouldn't marry them, 100%. The trouble is that most people, guys especially I'd say today, are so naive when it comes to this that they think that means that they should blindly trust their girlfriend/wife. In reality their behaviour tells you a lot about whether or not you should trust them or not - blindly trusting them is dumb. You trust people who give you no reason at all to not trust them. You don't trust people who do and ignore reasons not to. That's "blue-pill" thinking. If she has a stripper at the hen party, she might not be a cheater, but that in itself should be enough to make you become suspicious.
So she has a striper. So she get drunk and even get some action on the side before we get married. She should have some fun to make getting married a special moment and not the end of having a good life.
Nope i would expect there better be one there. Otherwise its not bachelorette party.
A striper is a must.
I sure would, it would make me reconsider everything I thought I knew about her and probably dump her.
No that's what they are for lol to have one last night of fun