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Sexual Health Guys, is my fetish a turn off?
lisaasks Xper 4
So I'm into weird stuff, like bdsm and rough sex. Is this a turn off for guys? I've heard boys make fun of their ex's for wanting to be tied up but it gets me so hot. Never done anything other then normal sex before and I don't know if/how I should go about it
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What Girls & Guys Said
9 45For many guys that is not but for some it is. Just guage what your date is like and what he likes before trying anything with him.
Join sits like fetster. com or fetlife. com and ask around. They are bdsm social networks with a lot of women.
Dont give porn references on public post. Even underage read it.
i don't like it done to me so i don't i how i would fell about doing it?
It's a turn on for guys who share it, and a turn off for guys who don't.
I think it's awesome.
Guys who make fun of it, just don't know how to handle it.
Your cool, keep on doing you.
Would here me complaining if yiu where my girlfriend
that's not weird to us we have cages and dungeons it's lots of fun
It's not a turn off, but, you're basically giving us useless info. It's like, why do we need to know this?
Been reading 50 shades of grey have we? lol
I guess if you tell your guy you'd like to get some "toys" (i. e whip, rope, ball gag, furry handcuffs) to spice up the sex, see how he responds.