Guys, what would you do if she was honest with you?

[Anonymous]

I got my heart broken bad so for the past 5 years I've just been self healing. Kinda horny and porn just isn't doing it. What would you do if a friend that you've expressed feelings for before came up to and just asked for sex no strings attached, doesn't want anything else from you, leave right after, but still want to be friends? won't even trouble you to ask for a hug or a kiss.

[ohshee]

Well i know what i wouls do and as a matter of fact i just kinda going through the same thing and then kinda started going out a little bit then lock down happen so I stated getting so flipped horny day in day out. Was talking to lot of people on line and was talking with some one and bam,,, I have looking for answers on something for a long time ,, I'm an Empath and I feel things deeper than most well I open a horny door that I can close and the thing is I don't want to close it I've been trying to finger lots of things out for years and every time I do sexing something happen it just keeps getting hotter and hotter i will tell you what im not going to bevshy about I'm going straight up ask you do you want to sext do you want to have I think a better orgasm that u have had in real life this sounds pretty bold or maybe it's my cock talking but it's not I can say this give me hrs I will give the best orgasm you ever had any way what was the question lol oh yes I remember u were saying ur hot and it's been way to long,, so u asked if you should send me a message and feel some thing beautiful and new

[ohshee]

So did you do it

[Asker]

I haven't approached him yet

[ohshee]

Well I hope you do for many reason I could feel you and your words you have a beautiful desire and your honest about it that makes it even better have you ever thought about trying sextingwith someone you don't know that could also be very beautiful

[Don-_-Don]

I tried friends with benefits before (when I was single), and the girl ended up wanting to date me.

Long story short, my experience with friends with benifits was something that I rather regret doing

I can be okay with it, but I won't tolerate a girl falling in love for me after we thoroughly agreed that it's strictly just sex with no romantic feelings attached.

[Asker]

thank you

[Anonymous]

Dumbest idea I've ever heard of. You just said you were heartbroken for 5 years & plan to have no strings attached sex. Get a vibrator, there's your no strings attached sex.

[Asker]

its boring

[teamvic]

Id be like, fuck yeah😂 lets do it

[teamvic]

Thats like every man's dream

[Asker]

🤣 well fuck I didn't expect positive opinions lol

[teamvic]

Just so im understanding you right. You want to go up to a guy, who has liked you before? And ask him to fuck you?🤔

[Asker]

even if he had feelings for her?

[teamvic]

I mean if I had feelings for a girl of course I'd wanna fuck her haha Butt disclaimer, if you do fuck him, there's no guarantee he doesn't catch feelings for you again

[Asker]

Yes sorry I wrote before I got your comment. Lol yes. I just want to be his girlfriend for the day or a couple hours ( see how long we can last) catch my breath, get dressed and ill leave no questions asked, no annoying cuddles or food lol. We don't even have to talk about it again if that's what he wants. Im cool with it, talking about feelings and shit makes me sick honestly

[teamvic]

Yeahh, im pretty sure it'll work haha, im sure he'd want to do it again 😂 Thats ones lucky dude😂

[Asker]

shit I didn't think about him catching feelings again. 😂 well he hasn't got lucky yet haha thanks man

[teamvic]

Haha honestly there's a good chance it will, but alright see yah

[Asker]

you think there is a good chance he will catch feeling again? Can I ask why? Just because sex is all I want doesn't mean I wouldn't feel guilty if he got hurt in the process thats why I ask lol

[teamvic]

Because he's liked you in the past right, even WITHOUT having sex and sex can throw in more emotions. Maybe he won't catch feelings right then and there, maybe he will but its like. Put yourself in his shoes, try to fuck someone one time that you had feelings for before you think youd be able to?🤔 Im not saying its impossible, maybe he's gotten over you im just giving you a heads up so you know exactly what could happen

[teamvic]

Im sure he's not gonna get his feelings hurt, or anything if you just wanna have sex but he could catch feelings is all im saying

[Asker]

I could see that. Thank you so much for the heads up and positive opinion hehe :)

[teamvic]

Good lucky girlie😌

[Marcuslrh]

Honesty is always best

[Mikelaughs]

It's a difficult situation.
It really depends on the closeness of udyr friendship.
Perhaps we should discuss this somewhere else where others can't see

[Asker]

We text but that's about it we've been friends a long time tho

[Mikelaughs]

Ok, that's a good start. Hmu so we can talk about it

[PiffDust]

Nooo, wtff, that ruinss the friendship, find someone specifically for that purpose, don't go around fucking up your friendships, if a "friend" agreed to do that, his intentions were never just to be your friend

[Asker]

I'm definitely worried about that. I want to feel safe though, and with a friend I'd feel safe. So I dont know really what to do lol. I mean the one I trust says he had feelings before but you never know if feelings are genuine 🤷‍♀️

[PiffDust]

You want to be safe during sex or feel safe in general?, if you do that with a friend, one of two things will happen at the end of that road, it doesn't matter, because both will lead you to losing each other, can you please explain what do you mean by safe?

[Asker]

Like I dont want to fuck some stranger. I know if a friend is hurting me he's going to stop, don't know about a random. I know deep down I'm not going to get hurt, killed, or trained by a bunch of randoms if im with a friend.

[PiffDust]

Okk, i get it, i'm still very much against it tho, i know from experience, things that are a lot less than sex ended many friendships, if you're too scared of a rando, maybe go on a dating app, go on a few dates, then if it goes well, you get what you want, i understand this is a much longer route to take, and you invest more into it, but it's better than losing a friend, trust me

[Asker]

😩 I appreciate it i do. Thank you

[Wise4myage]

If I was single at the time, then Id be more than happy to help her out, lol.

[Asker]

awh thanks

[Wise4myage]

You're welcome, lol.

[Quidthonian]

Personally, I would decline. I would recommend going to a male prostitute. For me sexual intercourse means emotional bonding. The fact that you don't want a hug and move straight to sex would worry me.
If you wanted to, I would go with you to that encounter. I would wait for you to take care of buisiness; I would make sure that you are safe.

[Asker]

❤ ugh i need you as a friend. The fact that you would make sure I'm okay is amazing and shows a lot about who you are

[Quidthonian]

Thank you. I'm touched. I am available on PM to anybody who wishes a private conversation.

[Asker]

No problem

[CharlieDMX]

I'd go for it. Definitely. There's only one way to find out if it was possible

[Asker]

If what's possible

[CharlieDMX]

To remain just friends after having sex

[FearlessGoat]

I’ll pass

[B2281]

If is only sex and no relationship I'd say no. I've never been a player and I'm at the point I'm only looking for a real relationship.

[Jack-mayhoff]

Do you want to chance ruining or making the friends ship awkward? You need to think of that. I mean if you just want sex. That isn’t hard to find.

[ceramicpanda1]

Would be totally fine with me

[Anonymous]

I'm not that kind of guy; so I would decline. If I am having sex there will be all kinds of strings attached to it.