Guys? Why do y’all like anal sex so much?

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Okay ,
So everybody I know is have this type of sex and I wanna know what’s so great about it?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

So, out of the last 30 or so women I've had sex with, I've had anal sex with (I believe) 27 of them (2 of the other 3 were one-night-stand things). Of those 27 women, 2 decided "it's not bad, but just not for me." The other 25 enjoyed it enough to ask for it on their own on a pretty regular basis, or just told me to go there whenever I wanted to. Not one of them said "oh, it's too painful" or "it's horrible."

Now, having said that, you also need to know this: I never asked them for anal, I merely let them know that it was something I had enjoyed in the past. Then, except for the girls who wanted to talk about it more right then, I *shut up* about it and I focused on the relationship and building trust with her.

Every last one of those women eventually brought up having anal on her own, though one of them it just never happened before the relationship ended. All the others initiated it, even though a few were nervous (a few were experienced and already liked it, but most had either never done it or had done it before and didn't like it). By letting her know that there was no pressure, and by being willing to talk about it, and address her concerns, and by working up to it, I made them all comfortable with the idea. They knew I would let them set the pace and have ultimate control the first few times - and by then, they KNEW they could trust me. That trust is really the key.

Most of them had very powerful orgasms from anal after they got used to the sensations, which often took a few sessions. A couple of them didn't, but still liked it once in a while.

I can't stress enough that my approach is:

- NEVER pressuring them to try it, and let them come to the idea on their own, in their own time, and
- Building TRUST.

After showing a girl how I can pleasure her in other ways, they tend to be interested in trying new things and having even more experiences, which in my opinion is how it should be.

The guy definitely needs to know what he's doing, and he must absolutely NOT be even a little bit selfish about it until she's done it several times (at least) and is completely comfortable - and, I can't stress enough that TRUST is key (and guys need to work to build it with the girl).

Here's an old post of mine about how I recommend doing it for the first few times:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1313095-what-s-the-best-way-to-do-anal-sex-for-the-first-time

JackIsBack7699 · Accepted Answer

Mainly because it's tighter

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not all guys do, from my experience. My last two partners both disliked it, from a strictly physical standpoint.

Goodwifie · Accepted Answer

I've never tried it and I don't wish to ever try it.

AustinMan · Answer

For me, it's about three things. First, it's very dominant for me and submissive for her and most women love that feeling of him in complete control. It's pretty hard to debate who's in charge when you're getting fucked up the ass, no?

It feels amazing, especially when she clamps down hard with her sphincter when I'm close to cumming.

Finally, I'm really into S&M and my ladies tell me it hurts so damn good when they're getting reamed.

Is that helpful?

LesterJester · Answer

Just popping in to say I don't like anal. Never did. Carry on.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If you have never had pepperoni pizza, could someone's explanation of why it is so good actually explain it in a way that you would understand?

SarahsSummer · Answer

Because it’s taboo and tight.

ChronicThinker · Answer

It feels incredible?

ladsin · Answer

Fellas enjoy having their prostate stimulated. It's basically the male g-spot.

If you're asking why they like to give it... well that's just a social thing. It's like a titty fuck. Not that great but the idea is hot

Robsinsf53 · Answer

I don't, never tried it, never wanted to and I think it's gay sex. I've said it a few times and watch the haters come at me, lol. You guys won't get a response from me so just answer her Q please. My comment is only my opinion.

Gracefulhippo · Answer

Deliciously taboo, an undeniably tighter hole, and I don't have to worry about knocking you up? Where do I sign?

But seriously, anal is good. Real good. In fact, nerve endings from the clitoris are also present at the g-spot and the anus, and the g-spot can be stimulated from the anus.

The problem is that most people don't do any research before they try it. The majority of people who try it don't even use lube, and they tell you it hurt too much to do it again. Well duh! Assholes aren't Pussies, and shouldn't be treated like one!

wbcronk · Answer

Its latent homosexuality... not so cool and sometimes leaves a present... not cool. Feels like sticking it in a balloon

Atreyu · Answer

Im not too keen on it actually

vittle1999 · Answer

Not a fan.

Dragon6901 · Answer

In my opinion everything. Intimacy, openness, variety, tightness the list goes on...

DrTruth · Answer

Can't get a girl pregnant if I cum in her butt.

cth96190 · Answer

The thought of anal sex disgusts me. 😡

jacquesvol · Answer

I never tried it and I don't want to try it.

winterfox10 · Answer

It's kind of a taboo thing. The butt is usually a lot tighter than the vagina so in theory it feels better, but lack of lube and shape of the rectum mean that you only get pleasure from the butthole itself. In addition to needing to move around a lot more, the cleanup can be a little on the messy side. Most men don't really enjoy butt sex all that much.