We've actually discussed this in the context of our opinions on participating in a threesome or sex club type of thing and he said no, he wouldn't be cool with that at all. That the idea of another guy's dick going inside me doesn't sit well with him. Breaks the whole intimacy/monogamy aspect of us being together in the first place.
Yeah to that, but from my end. The idea of another man doesn't sit well with ME. I am the property of one man, and only one. I have lots of fantasies in which I'm tied up, blindfolded, ears plugged, etc., and then laid open for a whole anonymous crowd to violate -- but only with toys/tools/implements/etc, and only under my husband's watchful eye. The idea of another man's cock, or hands, or even voice, just ruins the whole fantasy. Ruins it, nope, go home, game over. I don't feel the same degree of possessiveness with respect to him.
Any man who would allow this is a fool who was brainwashed by women.
Hell to the fucking no. I've never been good with sharing, let alone be cool with it or even think of someone else pleasuring and being inside my SO. Call me selfish and whatnot, but I would never be okay with it or even consider the idea.
It's her body, she's "allowed" to do whatever she wants but she wouldn't be my girlfriend anymore after that.
You're included in the gang bang you'd be one of the men. Would that change your mind?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would not allow it at all. If she persisted, then that will be the end of the relationship. I'm a simple guy, I date one girl and stay loyal, I expect that same loyalty in return. Perhaps this will work for people who agree to this lifestyle but for me, personally, I do not agree to it.
I would suppose some may do this I guess but I for sure would not.. but it would also be her choice.. and if she was into that kind of thing and wanted to do it.. I would be first of all be shaking my head wondering what kind of a women do I have here.. the second thing I would do if she went through with it.. is confront her and say.. this relationship is over.
No. I would be understanding of the fact that she maybe had such an interest, but I would not be OK with it, at all. The exact reasons why, I'm not quite awake enough to devote listing in a sensible way.
Look, if my desire was, say, a threesome with another woman, that would still be a sexual experience that we would share together, and that I would only find truly gratifying if she enjoyed it also. The better part of why I'd want that is so I could enjoy being present while watching two beautiful women together.
But for her to want to be gangbanged? With no desire to take part in a gangbang myself, it is a fantasy for her that has no attraction to me, and would have no involvement from me. So I'd either be sitting back watching several men take her at once and use her like a piece of meat, or I would be somewhere else, knowing that wherever she is, several men are taking her at once and using her like a piece of meat.
If my girl proposed that, I'd be disappointed, and break up with her.
We clearly wouldn't be on the same page sexually, at all.
if we were going to stay in a relationship then absolutely not
Why not? If it's a one time thing?
because i'm not ok with it. it's basically asking if she can cheat. i think the idea of my wife being gangbanged is disgusting. i'd dislike that she even thought that was something i'd consider if she wants to be gangbanged she can be single and do whatever she wants, but just because it's her birthday doesn't mean she has carte blanche to do whatever she wants
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this is one of your sex fantasies huh?
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If she was really turned on by it I think its a very hot idea
Yeah that wouldn't work if I was in a relationship.
That's so strange. Who would even want that?
I would break up if she even asks for that. I would even decline if she asks to have a threesome with me, I'm not into sharing my girlfriend, even less have a bunch of dudes fuck her. No way.
If she wants to do it, go ahead, but don't expect me to be waiting at home to kiss her goodnight... ever again.
She can do whatever she wants, after we break up.
I don't like the idea of sharing my partner.
Hell no. I'd dump her at the mention of it.
It suggests that she is dissatisfied with me.
Yay for consentual cheating with multiple other guys!
I think I'd just come to the realization that I made a mistake somewhere in the past in my judgements.
Technically, the concept shouldn't bug me objectively, but it does. It certainly shows that someone doesn't value sexual intimacy very much.
But being against it shows you don't value sexual liberation or freedom.
@Dansexuall You're right. I don't. I value the idea of monogamy over liberation and having sex with random people.
i would have to think on this long and hard because i would be jealous of someone else touching her. but on the other hand if it was only one time and her fantasy i would have to think about it but there would have to be a lot of rules that would go along with it like wearing a condom
but in the end i wouldn't allow it because its cheating even by consent
yea, let her have her fantasy, why not, it will make her happy and you can hand pick the guys, also you can ask her the same after, you and 3-4 girls, spice things up a bit, its not cheating or betraying if you are both cool with it
I have to say no, I'm not into that
Allow her? Yes she is free to do as she wishes. Doesn't mean I would agree with it or stay with her however. There will be people who are into this and others who are not, there are plenty of couples/people who are into this kind of stuff. To each their own.
Yes. Right after breaking up.
No man should allow this
I will say yes, if she wants it but there are rules
1) I will be present there, just in case of safety. (involving of me in gang bang is on her wish)
2) None of her friends or Ex or fuck buddies can take part in it. Will hire expert gigolo or male escorts for the job, of her choices. Pay them of for their services...
3) No video recording unless everyone is okay with it and if that happens, only I will make one for both of us and it will be under my control.. As long as she is my girl after it either I will dispose it of or she can take it.
But this will be sign, that I am failing somewhere to keep her happy, and she will leave me pretty soon. So either I will be ready to leave her or I will place my efforts in fixing up where I am failing...
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