Guys, would you be able to handle an open relationship with a bi girl who is only kinky with girls but vanilla with guys?

particularly if she's only submissive with women and not so submissive with guys.

Updates:
1 y
clarifying, there'd be nothing kinky with guys
1 y
the two relationships would be separate, it would not be a 3some situation
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Superb Opinion

  • It does not make much sense, bi women tend to be more submissive with men than with women, men are stronger than women, so it natural for a woman to feel more dominated by a man, is she feminist? girl on girl don't count, maybe she try to compensate that sex with women is not real sex, so she is doing kinky stuff with women? I don't really care about BDSM to begin with so whatever, but I also don't want a open relationship to begin with, especially if she want to be with other men, and not only other women.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Possibly, there isn't enough information to go on there to know. It really would depend on what expectations would be put on me. If the threshold is very low both ways, and it's really just fun, as it sounds more like you're primarily looking for serious relationships with women, then sure, why not. In general I have very few sexual relationships outside my marriage I take seriously anyway.

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  • It can definitely work as an open relationship, or a more casual sort of relationship, or even as a platonic kind of intimate relationship. I'm very kinky and I can't give that up myself.

  • Maybe, but kink is fun so I might feel a bit left out

  • Yes, but I would only use it for sex, not for a serious relationship.

  • My wife became bi-curious then bi-sexual in her early 30's. I think because she was with an experienced woman when she first started dating this woman. She had always been kinky with just me, but, never submissive. When the three of us got together she became submissive taking directions from both of us.

  • After reading the two updates I would say no. The updates were the two things that would have made it worth it.

  • I would hope that he is

  • No thanks.

  • No I would not

  • I think I would. One way to find out.

  • Why would I ever do that? Why share when one does not have to? :D

  • ill never understand bisexuality

  • Pretty sure I could

  • If we were not exclusive, sure

  • I like only heterosexual girls

  • I could but I'd struggle her being vanilla with me unless I found some kinky girls for me to have fun with

  • Maybe just Maybe

  • No. I'd want her kinky with me too

  • The bi part is great, are you a switch with guys

  • Maybe

  • Yes for sure

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