Guys, would you be okay with sex in the dark?

[Anonymous]

I’m 26 and a virgin. I decided at 18 that I wanted to be single and a virgin for the rest of my life because of my body. However, nature and hormones are starting to overwhelmingly come over me.

I’ve considered having sex, however I would only do it in the dark. I don’t want a guy to leave or cheat on me because of how bad my body is. Please believe me when I say, the majority of the female population have better bodies than I do. I can’t fathom or comprehend a man looking, enjoying, being excited about my body or wanting an intimate relationship long term if he knew what my body looks like. I think having sex in the dark is the best way to go. Would you be okay with sex in the dark?

[Wraven]

Firstly i very much highly doubt you are as bad as you say you are. The #1 thing most woman are the worst or best if you use the inverse is being way to hard on their physical appearance.

Secondly while not many are around there are quite a collective of Non-Judgmental types. Those who are both non-political and non-religious and are 100% realistic about caring more for the person for who they are, not what they look like, or how.

Thirdly, even if you have no breasts, buck toothed, cross eyed, hairy everywhere, and burnt on half your body, someone out there will love you for who you are, body and all.

[Twalli]

No. You don't understand how much guys like seeing naked women. Without a SEVERELY disfigured body, guys will find your body attractive. Those guys will want to be sexually involved with you. They will want to see you naked and will like how you look naked. If I am dating a girl and going to have sex with her I want to look at her during sex. I want to see her naked.

[erandal]

Trust me, there are men out there who like every body type and those who just don't care and will want you for who you are not what you look like. Women with perfect bodies are the exception, not the rule.

[ushagomez]

Go for dark to start with then increase to gentle soft lighting as you realise that he is not so shallow as to just judge you on what you look like.

[OlderAndWiser]

If the only time a girl gets naked with me is when it is absoutely dark, then that means she doesn't trust me. Not much future there! We want to be trusted. . . REALLY!

[RobT312]

I like sex in the dark, I’d be cool with it

[Berethor]

Sex in the dark is better than no sex at all, and if a girl is a virgin than she might worth it.

[normalice]

sex is usually in the dark so neighbors can't see in the windows.

[AviatorTom]

Sex in the dark can be fun. You have to feel your way around.

[Mac-One]

Not in dark - would want to be able to see everything about her body.

[Wubs3000]

You can't just hide your body from him forever. He will want to know what you look like and its not like he won't know just because its dark. Sex in the dark is fine, but your reasoning won't work.

[Chaser3232]

I’m old school, dated all body shapes and size. If the sex is good, I’m good!

[Texaskid1]

Nope.

I need to see what hole I am sticking it in.

[BarryLiverstone]

To start with. But I would like to be into her and over time hope she realizes I have feelings for her and it’s not just about the sex. There are many things we can do that are intimate to build her confidence, yk?

[BarryLiverstone]

Why not improve your body tho

[Jamie05rhs]

I think you should find someone who actually accepts you and wants to see you with the lights on.

[Keepitreal007]

Sex in the dark is fine but I’m pretty sure he’d be okay seeing you too. Be more confident in yourself. You’re an incredible woman!

[animesenpai]

If I wouldn't bang her with the lights on I wouldn't do it in the dark

[lawhawk]

I've had sex in the dark but i think you are overreacting on your body. What is so bad that no guy on earth would like it?

[In_Trance]

No. Lights on or I'm out

[OddBeMe]

1) yeah, a good guy should be cool with whatever makes you comfortable.
2) you're putting too much into losing the V card. Its a hollywood trope. What is important is getting to know people and finding an SO you really like. Sex is incidental.

[Zolly99999]

I have had sex in the dark many times.. I do prefer it with the lights on because I love to look at the naked female body. If a guy has gotten this far with you I'm pretty sure your body is fine.

[Gangactivities911]

So what if most women have “better” bodies than u. If u think most men have standards anyways ur wrong. Maybe Prince Charming won’t wanna fuck but I can basically guarantee there are guys who will find u attractive naked.

[EaterPeter]

I don't think so.

[jirwin7979]

that would be a new exp for me i wish one day i can see what all the fuss is about having sex with a virgin