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Sexual Health Guys, would you enjoy having sex with your partner without lights or with lights, if she's a shy person?
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Have you found it pleasurable without lights as well?
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0 47I, like most guys, don't like no-lights. We want to see the girl. I don't care if she's shy; if she's too shy to get fucked with the lights on then she's not someone I'm going to be passionate about in the first place. Guys are visually-stimulated.
Yet if you are with her, wouldn't you care about how she feels most pleasure, additionally to her eyes.
If she's with me, wouldn't she care about how I feel the most pleasure, additionally to my eyes?
If she was shy i want lites an makd her feel comfortable about her body if i were seeing her an tell her we can just takd things slow an if you dont want to do something then we wouldn't
If we're to the point of having sex I want to see her naked
Whichever makes her comfortable.
I would want to help her not be shy about her body with me. It might take a while, and I understand it, but I would ultimately want to enjoy the sight of her nude body.
I need the lights I want to look. at her and if she's shy I'll make her comfortable with me
if a girl is going to go to bed with a guy there is no reason to be shy now? She has already made up her mind to do it with him...
I apologize if this comes across as rude but to me this question is meaningless pointless, if you are with someone for any length of time you are going to it all the time lights on lights off during the day during night in the bedroom in the bathroom in the kitchen in the living room and in the car, so you might as well go to Walmart and buy the biggest mirror they have and stand buck ass naked with your partner in front of it and look at yourselves and get used to it and get over it, there is no good reason to be shy with your partner and any other reason is going to cause more problems than lights on or off
i like to see what im doing but i gotta at least have enuff light for eye contact
lights on is better
Shy chicks are always the most freaky. But in the dark. Like they think god can’t see them.
Candle light!
That's nice.
I want light and want to see her details
I am okay either way. It’ll be her choice.
I'm comfortable either way as long as she is comfortable
Whichever way she is most comfortable, I prefer with, but I'm a very visual person, I also can see pretty well in the dark so no big for me haha
I prefer lights on, but if she was shy I might try to see if she'd compromise and do low light, like a dimmer or candle. I don't need to really see what I'm doing... I just think it's sexier when I can! Also, accidental elbows have happened. Lol
lights on is best
it is pleasurable either way, lights on is better
Whatever makes her the most comfortable.