Guys, would you rather have sex with no condom and not cum, have have sex with condom?

[Anonymous]

This happened to me with this guy. He would not use a condom and just never cum (I use birth control but he doesn't know). Is this common? He also told me he has always used condom with other girls because he is really scared they have his baby (I know him as friend for too long so it's definitely true). It's a bit weird but just wondering what's going on in his mind when doing this. Does he not mind if I had his baby?

would appreciate your opinion!

[Anonymous]

the point of sex is to cum, so, i would def. wear the condom