Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health so me and my bestfriend were tipsy and decided to have sex in his car ( we never had sex before )
anw we are very close friends been besties for years but he always calls me ugly and I call him ugly as well but in a joking matter but I don't know if he is serious or not
for example when a guy hits on me or something or i start dating someone he is like who's the new dumbass that's dating you or like once we became roommates and he was like shit i have to see your face every single day that's pure torture etc etc ( before you call him mean or something i also say similar stuff to him back and this is the kind of banter we have with each other but ofc we love and care about each other a lot )
the thing is i actually believe he thinks I'm ugly and not just joking yet we had sex and he was really turned on so what does it mean? does he find me attractive? or is it normal to be able to get hard around someone you find unattractive just because it's sex?
Guys would you sleep with a girl that you find unattractive?
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Updates:
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update : He isn't the desperate type he is quite attractive himself I also think he thinks i find him unattractive because while we were having sex I told him "you're so hot" and he said "oh you must be really drunk to say that" then i said " no you really are hot af " then after that comment he kissed me very passionately also for the people talking about relationships we aren't in a relationship we just agreed after that night to have sex sometimes if we both want it
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update 2: thank you everyone for your answers !! I actually asked him this question yesterday after hooking up again 😊 he said: "I never thought you took it seriously I'm obviously just joking you idiot" etc etc
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What Girls & Guys Said
1 47What a great "friendship" :)
I couldn’t be with somebody I don’t find attractive. If y’all call each other ugly and have been then why now do you think he means it? and it’s no longer something y’all do?
Yea I would because it is not like you have to be seen with the girl on your arm after it is over
Besties joke with each other they're ugly. He sounds like he really is into you. I certainly don't think he really thinks you're ugly. Its a big step to go from friends to having a relationship. Take it carefully. I've lost long term friends this way.
we're not in a relationship we're still only friends but we agreed to hook up sometimes only for pleasure
No..
See where it goes. Its not guaranteed.
no just like you wouldn't
If you're cool, depending on my mood I can be OK to have sex, I just won't give my best. Now if I find you reeaaaaaally unattractive it's dead
He is just fucking with you. He doesn't think ur ugly, he wouldn't say it if he did. That be said most guys will get hard and horny even if they aren't that attracted to a chick in that situation. How was the sex? Did it effect the friendship?
it was great and no it didn't affect the friendship at all we actually kinda agreed to have sex from now on when we both are in the mood for it and agreed that sex is only for pleasure and not emotional purposes
Be careful with that someone always falls for the other.
Yes. And I have before lol
But it sounds like this guy's into you wether HE wants to admit it to himself or not
Yes.
Potentially, if I was desperate enough for sexual enjoyment.
its called flurting and teasing u
told u were just flirting and now its progressed to shagging next is relationship :D
hopefully no relationship but yeah it turned out to be teasing haha ^-^
SEX is as natural as breathing. We as humans are still part of nature and the animal world so to speak. W with hormones and such just like the rest of the species. here's a question to ask yourself, why do we wear clothing when , apes, monkeys, Dogs, cats, do not?
Been there, done that. Literally. Mainly loud girls who are cute but erk my soul.
I personally wouldn't
Nope
Horny ass incels - you clearly underestimate our thirst
Is he white?
yeah why
Whenever a girl refers to great sex it's always a black guy
Black men are just more testosterone filled they are just more manly than us pasty fucks. Women are attracted to masculinity and the blacks are more masculine
@GayLoner your right But why the hell are you gay?
Too damn smart to be straight and too ugly
Its just teasing but clearly after the sex you want to figure him out in the hopes of dating him. Must have been a long time coming for the two of you
No.. best kidding.. chill