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Or reasons why you don't (fear of rejection, too shy or scared etc.)
Guys, You Want Women To Initiate Sex More, Right?
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Or reasons why you don't (fear of rejection, too shy or scared etc.)
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2. Absolutely we do. Correct
Thanks... And yes I know lol Some women already do initiate sex. But some men always saying women don't initiate sex. So instead of complaining, F discuss it or if anyone has advice or tips for anyone that is in the situation... Me, at my age I don't have that issue
Women almost never initiate anything. Dates, sex, proposal for marriage. It's annoying. If a girl needs tips just PM me. I give free advice all the time in here
That's so not true just a generalization... Read the threads on here how many men said their women do initiate sex... The other 2, yeah men do those more, but still can't say women never do or never have.. Let's not turn this into female bashing... Thanks 🙂
You ask something specific. So you get a specific answer. If you did a poll asking if women initiate a lot or if the guy initiates more your results would be different. I gave you an honest answer. It's not bashing women. You just took it too personally
I didn't mean "never" in the literal since. I meant it expressively. Like 99%. Only exception is in a relationship. that's different tho
This post was more to get people to talk about how to get women to initiate sex more... Not really if men want them to, Duh think already know that... That's why it was men want... right? This was more trying to get people to give tips advice to get your women to initiate sex more, and for women to be more comfortable initiating sex..
I wouldn't mind it
Does it bother you to have to be the only one that initiates or doesn't it really matter?
It doesn't bother me. But a change of pace is always exciting
Yes I would like women to initiate more though I've had my share of women who did initiate more I mean all women as far as my experience goes will tell you they want you even if they don't use words
I think a confident woman is sexy as hell
That's true... Any advice for men who's women don't initiate? Or for the ladies?
She prefers to drop hints or be more indirect about it which 9 times out of 10, I will immediately pick up on. I jokingly tell her to be more direct which is how I am... but that's not her nature which is fine.
To the last meme lol, right before her period is when she is most direct and I'll get that handshake there... which, of course, is awesome :)
Thank you for sharing, 🙂 sharing is caring hmm who said that 🤔 🤣🤣
lol... I believe that phrase was said by one bad ass astronaut... "sharing is caring" is very similar in importance as the famous quote "One small step for man, one giant leap for mankind"
Careful leaping that might be a "slippery" slope 😅🤣
lol... nothing slippery going on right now so no worries lol :)
Just adding on, "Sharing is caring" made the astronaut inspirational quote book.
Each of the 85 quotes gets its own page. Guess which page my quote is on? :)
Is that your buddy, Albot 🤣🤣
No you were thinking of the Sex Quotes book AI Bot wrote... but my same quote made that one too :)
Nope, fifty fifty
Didn't mean more than you... Mean more than they do now.. Which I think women already do.. But how many posts I seen guys saying women don't ever initiate sex 🤷🏼♀️ lol
A lot of guys are deviants and unrealistic
🤣🤣🤣 some maybe lolol some women be tripping to tho... That's why I don't get the gender bashing... Just bash the fucked up people from both genders but not the good ones... 🤷🏼♀️
I’m the same, a A-hole isn’t determined by how he pisses. Just the shit they say and do.
🤣🤣 right like that there haha but also very true
I'm kinda shy, and have a fear of rejection probably due to my anxiety and would prefer my man initiate, most of the time cause I'm ALWAYS in the mood unless I'm sick, but i do initiate oral on him a lot
I get fear of rejection, but men can have that fear too. We forget that sometimes, maybe read the threads there's some great advice and tips and male perspective on hear that might help you with your shyness 💜🙂
*here not hear lolol
On one hand yes but the other is clutching a consent form so maybe not but with my back and now my heart... I'll probably forgo anything in that regard
Rather go out Cobain style, brain and buckshot soup than being fodder for comedians by dying in the sack
I think I've been lucky in the sense that by being an awkward guy that talks a lot of bollocks (especially after a night out) then any girl who I've got close too has usually took the initiative if I haven't. I mean how else are you going to shut up this idiot! lol
🤣 well that's one way lololol
Perhaps it is the women I tend to attract, but I have zero complaints in this arena. They definitely take initiative, ‘too’.
Oh I agree.. Tell other men that lol the ones that keep saying women never initiate sex.
No, women definitely do.
Yes I know lol I might not always of.. but so got older yep no problem with that 🙂
"as not so lol
Because it's nice to feel wanted.. If we have to initiate all the time we don't feel wanted.
I love when a woman initiates sex because it makes you feel wanted and good about yourself/abilities in bed. There are many ways you can initiate and males are normally willing at almost any time, unless we are super tired or have a lot of bad stuff going on. Just remember if we are already with you that means we already think you are beautiful and sexy, so if you like being with us and want to be with us right then just be straightforward about it because a lot of us do not take hints well. For those to shy to do something overly sexual, Initiating doesn't only apply to making the first physical move, just whisper in your guys ear that you want him and see how fast he reacts. I want you are three little words that individually have nothing sexual about them and take such a short time to say, but the impact of those words can make a guys whole day better and brighter.
Great great answer.. and great great advice here!!! Thank you for getting what I'm trying to do. Instead of complain, communicate ways to address, solve the issues men and women seem to be having or creating! The three little words, best advice so far here!!
Thanks, great question.
Thank you 🙂
A girl should initiate sex only after marriage!
The wife is ready to please her husband happily and she will be comfortable doing it knowing that he is her man who loves her, takes good care of her and he is her family! Unlike a random guy or just a boyfriend!
A man and woman should take care of one another and please one another...
True! I was speaking about the woman, because your question pointed on the woman's role! In general, before marriage, we always see that it's always the man who initiates sex and takes then1st step in nearly everything! After marriage the wife starts making the 1st step more than her husband because she feels safe with him and knows that he ain't only her boyfriend or a random man! Miss brainsb4beauty, i sense that you always bring up the man's part in every answer i post to your questions! Trying to show me that their equal... I'm sure that you know my type and you know how i think and my ideology, don't pressure me with too much equality because in our lives there is no such thing as 100% equal, men and women are different! If in such places the men did more than it's okay and if in other places women did more than it's also okay! A relationship is about giving and not calculating judging about who did this or who did that and now it's my turn or your turn! 😏
I don't do that. That's what you do. I NOWHERE used the word role... Cuz sex isn't/shouldn't be a "role" or "duty" ... It should be a mutual sharing of pleasures.. You are the inner that acts like a women should be a servant for her man... And yes I disagree... But to each their own 🤷🏼♀️
Since you aren't capable to understand what i mean than your right to each on his own! Also don't try to frame me in scenarios that aren't made by me, keep your illusions and suspicions for yourself! The truth always hurts and one thing for sure that i can never act or lie just to suit your way of thinking! On the other hand, i do respect the love that you gave to your husband and the care that you gave him till the end!
Excuse me? What illusions and suspicions? Look I don't know why the hostility? I don't have to agree to what you view relationships should be like any more than you have to agree with me. But I nowhere got offensive... I am allowed to voice my opinions, especially on my post. And I'm sorry, but using role and sex in same sentence is part of what ruins sex... If I may, if you treat a woman like it's her role to please you because you're there provider. . I personally feel she should do those things to show love not because you're the provider but because you're someone she loves so she cares for you out of love.. And she should get the same in return for the same reason. But this post was about men sharing with women why they'd like them to initiate sex more and tips and advice for those who may struggle with that, not about the roles and duties of a wife to get husband... Sex is a gift to be shared
See! Now your fixing things up! GOOD! I'm only hostile when someone understands me wrong and start talking about me in a wrong way! I agree with your statement right now and disagree with you about the things that you have said about me because i'm not like that! Providing for the wife is my responsibility, not because i have to but because i love her and that's the man role in life and the woman's role is inside the house! You can disagree with me and it's okay 😄 Imagine me accepting a girl giving me sex just because it's her role and duty! NO WAY! If i was like that, i wouldn't be telling girls to stay virgin till marriage or i could of used many girls for sex and dumped them! Maybe you aren't used to deal with real men! Cause a real man never uses a girl for his own pleausre, he accepts a girl who is willing to give him her heart and her whole self because he is simply her life! Only a male makes sex but a real man makes love! I hope you understand now 😏
We were getting somewhere for a minute lol but where did I say a man should use a woman for his pleasure.. I think I said it's a gift to share.. That they give of one another to one another...
True, i haven't said that it's you who were saying it, i was just mentioning my perception about this topic! The woman needs a man to complete her life and the man needs a woman to complete his! The women who says that we don't need anyone except themselves are just a bunch of liars with 2 faces, the weak face that cries at home and the feminist barking face in public 😉👍🏻
Everybody needs someone to love and those who say otherwise are either liars or in denial, so see ewe can agree on a few things lololol 🙂
*we not ewe lol
Sure we do 😌
It is extremely enjoyable. My ex used to call me for sex, and on my arrival, she welcomed me in nude. Her initiative was always superb.
👍👍🙂 lol
i'm ok either way
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haha ok 🔥
I have always felt it appropriate for the guy to initiate sex, and so, I believe, did my ex. But then we were of a generation brought up with those attitudes.
However, recent experiences have made me question that. I was seeing a woman who appeared to like my company, but never initiated physical contact. It eventually dawned on me that we only had sex when I was paying out significant sums of money on hotel rooms, meals, etc. And she never contributed anything. All together that made me feel I was being used. So I finished with her, although we aim to stay friends.
I am now with a woman who I know has been neglected for many years. Her response to me is electric. I never need to initiate anything, because she is already making her desires obvious. It is absurd to think she wants me for my body, but she hardly seems to want anything else from me (except my time and company).
So I have gone from feeling used by a gold-digger, to feeling desired and cherished by a vivacious woman.
Ladies, how do you want your man to feel?
Great reply! Thank you for sharing that! I You help prove yes there's women who don't initiate but also there's women who DO... Under just seen so many posts women never initiate, which I know ain't true cuz I have no problem doing that if with the right person, but for the men and women where it is, well better to throw out ways to maybe change that instead of just complaining, that won't solve anything. Thanks 🙂👍
I don't mind being the one who initiates but yeah, it is far better when the dudes initiate it.
Can you share why you like it better when the guy initiates it? Not trying to pry lol just see so many posts men saying women won't, thought discussing it better than just complaining. ...
I told my girl to take some initiative and make a move on me... she's yet to do it. Thats why I just fked two chicks I hardly remember.
The girls I date are often ravenous. I don't have to initiate anything, they on-top of that issue already.
Thank you! So for the men who keep saying women never do.. I hope they see/read your reply and others that said same!!!
Covid19, has made people not want to interact. That may have something to do with why they are saying that. Or they are just ugly. Girls don't get hot and bothered for guys that don't look after their health.
Yes. However, the conditions and circumstances need to be right. I would trust her to take care of that.
Yes! Because guys like confident girls. You want some dick just come get it. Don't play stupid games. By the way you are a hottie at 48. Good for you!! Like damn!!!
Come get it, 🤣🤣 lol that sounds like what the old school farmer wives would yell as ringing the dinner bell... And thank you 🙂
I'd love to come get a piece of you. Ring that bell I'd love to eat.
PM and let's talk
I'm not much for PM's..