Had sex on the first date, now he wants me to sleep over on the 2nd date? is it a booty call?

So we had an amazing first date and also had sex which I never do on a first date. He’s really busy with work and doesn’t get home till midnight (he’s a banker).

He wants me to stay over tomorrow but it would be me waiting for him at midnight. He’s flying Thursday evening for a weekend business trip and claims that he’s trying to be creative with his schedule right now and knows it’s a stretch.

Do you think it’s a booty call? He has expressed he really likes me etc.
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  • huh... Hard to say, first time sex it's pretty much well... Now you dont have any medium to base his feelings off of. Booty call or you going to do it just to entice him to like you? Women give their bodies up to men who in hopes will love them. When they love the pussy not the woman.

  • You action says different.

  • It could be since you had sex so early. It's impossible to tell.

  • I was a banker for six years, I never got home at midnight unless I was out drinking with the troops.

  • Whenever you have sex on the first date its usually a booty call. Sorry. Men dont respect sluts.

  • Um. If he didn’t want to sleep over after sex, would you consider it a one night stand? Its a self defeating question.

  • Who cares? If you like having sex with him, feel free to continue having sex with him. If you don't like having sex with him, nobody can make you have sex with him.

  • It could be but if you talk about it and make your expectations and boundaries known it can be whatever you want it to be.

  • It’s a Boooooooooty Call...

  • It depends on how he reacts to being turned down.

  • If he knows you desire premarital sex, then he will keep coming to you.

  • Who cares you are already a loose slut

  • Sounds like good hook up a lot of attraction

  • No. If it were a booty call, he wouldn't need you to spend the whole night.

  • If you have doubts about what he is telling you than that’s a trust issue. If that’s the case than I would say don’t do it for that reason.
    My opinion is that there should be trust before anything else because without that you will always have doubt and that takes all the fun out of it right?

  • Sounds like you are the mistress and he has a family in another house lol. I've heard this happen to many ladies

  • That the mistake he probably doesn’t take you seriously. Especially on the first date and action does speak louder then you say.

  • Yes.