Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Had sex with a guy I’m dating a while and I’m not sure because he was tired with work. But he stopped halfway through the second round after I was on top of him and rolled to his side. Baring in mind the first round didn’t last long and he came within 10minutes.
During sex he had said he wants to be around me and how I’m so hot etc. So for him to roll on his side, I asked if he already came and he said no and I said are you ok? And he said yes, we need to work on the rhythm.
I was shocked because no one had told me that before and felt a bit hurt that I said so you’re saying you didn’t enjoy it and I’m bad? And he said how we are still getting to know each other’s bodies.
Is it me? Or is it him? I don’t know how to read it. The very first time we had sex, we had sex 4 times. So now we did it again, he said that, so I’m very confused.
Had sex with a guy and he said we need to work on rhythm. Does that mean I’m bad at sex?
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Hmmm, sounds like an excuse. Maybe he didn't have the 'gusto' for round two but his machismo made him put it on you with that lame excuse. If there is a problem with rythem I'll vocalize: slower... Or faster... Or 'move with me doll'... I won't just give up and roll over. If rythem is that bad I'll grab the hips so she can't mess it up and do it all myself or alternatively hold still and let her work the rythem and focus my attention to other stimuli to her body... Many better choices than what he did in my opinion.
This is where you find out what a women is really like... a push over or someone who stands up for themselves and doesn't take shit.
Its him all the way on that one. No worries girl
i would say just keep working on it practice makes perfect
Rythm is the motion of his thrusting in u if u have a vag to squeeze with or work your muscles is hood and find a motion that u both like... I like a deep slow rythm whichs gets my girl n me off other times she says i go to fast...
WTH... Is rhythm... Classical singing?
There's no such thing as bad sex. Just some times are better than others.
Sounds like he came sooner than fesired n u just nred to learn eavh oyher
Not sure about this, maybe you could come over and we could practice?
I recommend buying him a set of congas.
Poor you! Did you just find out you're not a sex god?
No, it is, when you do it like team not like single players.
So you both move towards one goal, not in wrong directions or wrong timing, or take turns so one resting when other doing some work...
There is nothing specifically about only you it is about teamwork.
Does it make any sense?
He only lasted 10 minutes. Couldn't have been that bad lol.
It's interesting to see so many different takes on the explanation for the comment.
It's probably you
Or maybe he's bad at it and manipulating you to make u think that's actually your problem.
I think he just means you’re out of sync with him
Well It takes two to have good Sexual chemistry, but i wouldn't push a girl off me for that reason. I think it was something like he felt he wouldn't be able to cum and got bored or he felt his dick was getting soft or he has anxiety about a girl being on top, something like that.