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Some men think just women use sex to manipulate/control men when the TRUTH is this is not a gender characteristic, but rather the tendency, a characteristic of a Narcissistic person...
https://medium.com/lady-vivra/this-is-how-narcissists-use-sex-to-control-you-688b049b95be
What Girls & Guys Said
11 49First wife.
Major cheater.
Yes, very manipulative
Sorry to hear that! Glad you're out of that situation now.. and yeah if you read the article, infidelity is often another tendency, behavior of narcissistic people
Some guy tried. I simply ignored him. Problem solved.
Right!!
Sort of, but thankfully it was lame and didn't work. It was over the internet
Guess better than IRL tho
Very true! Very very true
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Yes, years ago.
Well glad you're no longer in that situation
Yeah me also. Although I must say narcissistic women are carnival rides in bed. lol
I wouldn't know lolol only dealt with a Narcissistic male😂
We should compare notes. lol
LOL😂
Nope.
That's good
Yes, and it was a damn lot of fun! She thought I didn't know, and that made it even more fun!
@loveslongnails interesting sir
@WowwGirl sort of, but it turned into a silly game. In the end, it was a good thing because I learned that she wasn't the one for me.
Good you dodged a bullet it sounds
@WowwGirl Yes, and I learned that important lesson in life that applies to a lot of people: "Everything is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power". I didn't really want to live like that. Sex doesn't need to be all about power.
Agree 💯 there... People ruin sex trying to make it about power or Control
And sex is too good a thing for people to be ruining like that 🤷🏼♀️
Indeed. Bad sex is one of life's great disappointments! Some folks will tell you there's no such thing, but there definitely is !!
Oh I know, that would describe sex life with first hubby 🤣🤣
Sorry you had to live through that.
The physical abuse was worse than the bad sex... Dealing with just one of those issues is bad enough, but both, yeah too much even for me 🤷🏼♀️
I sorry 🙁
@WowwGirl it's all good! I might of stayed longer than I should of... But least I did get away and have 20 years with a good man before I lost him. Yesterday would of been his birthday, and I think I'm past it, but dealing with idiots that just don't get it won't just leave you be, make me miss him more not less 🥺
Tried, yes. Succeeded, no
That's good!
There isn't good enough pussy in this earth to simp for
Right! Sex, even good sex is no reason to put up with a controlling, Narcissistic, asshole
No, sex is powerful. But I can’t be manipulated easy.
That's good. Nobody should use sex that way anyways
Nope. But if it would happen anytime, I don't know if I'd ever notice, if the manipulation is done professcinally It's sometimes hard to notice unless someone tells you about it.
Manipulation is still manipulation no matter if it's subtle or easily noticed.
That's true
Q - Q i'm glad to say i ain't never been treated like that... probly because of the kind of partners i select... and how i dont always get very far with them XD
What do you mean you don't get far with them? Why is that?
correction... *i ain't never got very far with them
Luckily No.
Right!! That's not what sex should be about
absolutely
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Yes they have
Yeah not cool
I feel like that has happened a couple times but I can’t remember what the context was.
Nope.
But I'm guilty of being the manipulatior😆
Least you honest with it lololol
Haha yep
I can respect that
Yes and it didn't work 😂
Right! Sexually submitting/dominating in the bedroom is one thing, ain't gonna put up with someone thinking they can use sex to control you outside the bedroom, yeah no
What if he was really really good could he control you then
In the bedroom is one thing, but in a friendship, relationship, etc... People shouldn't try to control or manipulate people to get people to do everything their way, that's not a real friendship, that's not a real relationship
I agree
Yes, but when women do that - it becomes conspicuous and I say "No" to this kind of sex. Also when women do this, it's a turn off which means I'm not wanting sex anymore.
I didn’t think so but now...(grabs crossbow)
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No they have not
That's good 👍🙂
Jerre would not care reguardless 😂
@WowwGirl can’t help it if I love to fuck. She may be able to control my cock, but not my mind
True
I don’t play games and don’t want them to do either.
so no, no one has ever done that and I don’t ever do that.
That's good!!! I agree game playing is not worth it and neither are the people who play games
@brainsbeforebeauty
I wish that it was that simple.
Way back when, I was a borderline incel until about age 30. The women wanted scumbag/abusive bad boys and that was not me.
That applied especially to the young females with whom I worked in the print and electronic media. They were university indoctrinated Feministas, who wanted 'rough trade'.
Other girls were simply not interested.
It was what it was.
I have a type, which is a Barbie or Jessica Rabbit (I have a thing for redheads) with a high IQ and a fellow Deplorable.
I have, however, dated a few dark-haired women, so my preference is not set in stone.
Really and truly, I have encountered either rejection or insanity, sometimes both.
The government statistic is that 25 per cent of the adult female population are on prescription psychiatric drugs.
Those are active prescriptions.
Imagine how many have not been diagnosed, or treated.
I set out as a young man looking for one special woman to love and care for. Women burned that out of me. I hurt so much inside.
www.huffingtonpost.com.au/.../women-and-prescription-drug-use_n_1098023