Has your partner ever feared that a certain kink or preference of them could push you away from them?
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It turns out that's yet another thing that got her worried. I made and admittedly stupid joke on a preference she has a couple of days ago and apparently that got her paranoid that it could be one of the reasons we haven't been intimate all week. I have had to reassure her and apologize, I was lighthearted and didn't assume she'd take it seriously. Has this ever happened to you?
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Lesson learned to be more mindful when I say certain things. I never thought my joke would make her feel so insecure, she has always been so cool and confident about it.
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I mean, all things considered I think it's normal to feel a bit uneasy and sickened about sex, it is not? I understand I have ambivalent feelings, enjoying and being wary of it at the same time, but I see that society more or less promotes this idea so it's okay?
I don't think so, yesterday he licked my butthole without asking me, I liked it so I didn't stop him but then he tried to put it in and I was like "nu uh", I guess we make an attempt and depending on how the other responds we either continue it or stop. Plus he knows me well enough to know what's a definite "no".
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he's one risk taking guy. I salute him😂
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Yeah, an ex told me she had a real foot dom kind of fetish, she wanted her feet worshipped and licked and kissed and all gross stuff
Broke up with that creepy shit pretty fast
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I mean. I've always been kinda innocent in comparison to most people around my age and therefore guys around me and guys I've dated have been really awkward around anything sexual.
My boyfriend hated himself because he got turned on by me because he felt gross or something. I never ever thought of him as gross and made sure to tell him so. But I did get extremely shy and flushed red like a tomato. But I took it more like a compliment than anything. Either way. I had to get over my shyness and start getting into the dirt because I didn't want him to feel like he was being gross. He still has his moments when he almost cries because he feels like he's forcing himself on me (when he's not), but I try to make him feel better. And I'm still not fully comfortable with sexual stuff, but I feel like he makes it easier just because he is so careful. He has a few kinks and he's always made a huge deal about them being gross, but they're pretty normal so he's just being stupid. I truly am lucky to have such a respectful boyfriend though.
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I really enjoyed reading this, and I'm happy you have such a beautiful relationship. He seems really a sweet guy and you are a really kind girl. I admit that my girlfriend is quite similar to your boyfriend on some things. She's a bit embarassed about sex and her kinks also because she's older than me and since she was my high school tutor and senior, she says that sometimes still pictures me as a kid. She's not that older than me but she was still a grown girl when we first met while I was little more than a kid.
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11 16I don't think so, yesterday he licked my butthole without asking me, I liked it so I didn't stop him but then he tried to put it in and I was like "nu uh", I guess we make an attempt and depending on how the other responds we either continue it or stop. Plus he knows me well enough to know what's a definite "no".
he's one risk taking guy. I salute him😂
Yeah, an ex told me she had a real foot dom kind of fetish, she wanted her feet worshipped and licked and kissed and all gross stuff
Broke up with that creepy shit pretty fast
I mean. I've always been kinda innocent in comparison to most people around my age and therefore guys around me and guys I've dated have been really awkward around anything sexual.
My boyfriend hated himself because he got turned on by me because he felt gross or something. I never ever thought of him as gross and made sure to tell him so. But I did get extremely shy and flushed red like a tomato. But I took it more like a compliment than anything. Either way. I had to get over my shyness and start getting into the dirt because I didn't want him to feel like he was being gross. He still has his moments when he almost cries because he feels like he's forcing himself on me (when he's not), but I try to make him feel better. And I'm still not fully comfortable with sexual stuff, but I feel like he makes it easier just because he is so careful. He has a few kinks and he's always made a huge deal about them being gross, but they're pretty normal so he's just being stupid. I truly am lucky to have such a respectful boyfriend though.
I really enjoyed reading this, and I'm happy you have such a beautiful relationship. He seems really a sweet guy and you are a really kind girl. I admit that my girlfriend is quite similar to your boyfriend on some things. She's a bit embarassed about sex and her kinks also because she's older than me and since she was my high school tutor and senior, she says that sometimes still pictures me as a kid. She's not that older than me but she was still a grown girl when we first met while I was little more than a kid.