About 10 years ago, I asked a girlfriend to shave her pubes and her immediate response was to ask if I really wanted her to look like a little girl. She didn't use the word "pedophile" but that was clearly the message. I have also had other users on this site suggest that any guy who prefers smaller boobs is a pedophile.
Have you had either of those experiences?
I've never gotten that reaction from a girl I was dating, except the first girl I ever asked to shave (back in the 80s, when shaving was NOT very common), that SHE would feel like a little girl. Most of the women I've dated for the last 25+ years were already bare, so it was hardly an issue.
But I've had OTHER women make this assertion, which never made any sense to me. A grown woman's body, even without pubic hair, looks nothing like a child. That would be like saying a man who has a bald head looks like an infant - it makes no real sense, EXCEPT I often feel that the person saying that is really just projecting their own feelings on others - as in, THEY feel attracted to children and are trying to hide it, but get triggered by anything that reminds THEM of THEIR attraction.
I actually had someone call me a pedo a few months ago because I was out with my girl - who is 36! - because she's a petite Filipina woman. Yes, she could easily pass for being in her 20s, but she certainly doesn't look 11, much less 6. I've long gotten past the point of caring what weirdos say when they're triggered by something that their poor little snowflake brains can't handle, but with every new scandal, I'm more and more convinced that most of this is just them projecting their own desires onto others.
This will be an MHO!
" A grown woman's body, even without pubic hair, looks nothing like a child. " I've always thought, I look nothing like when I was little now, so why would anyone think shaved looks that way, spot on.
@Aerissa_Jade Exactly. You're tall as an adult. You have boobs and hips and curves that children just don't have. It's not at all the same, and there's no way to mistake one for the other - at least for non-pedo adults. Those with pedo attractions tend to project those attractions on to others, just as many really militant anti-homosexuals tend to be closeted homosexuals themselves, can't admit it, but "see" homosexuality everywhere, especially places where it clearly isn't.
"Pedophile" is sort of a goto insult used by women that I take very seriously. Call me that where others can hear or read it, and you will find yourself talking to my lawyers.
Ths will be MHO!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I don't think it's a "ped" thing. But I do think it's weird that society suddenly said "You have hair down there? Gross! You don't care about hygiene! That's not healthy!" When in reality, it is completely natural and healthy. I'm not saying that having your preference is abnormal, mine is just the complete opposite of that. I like a girl who has a heavier upstairs and is unshaven downstairs. To me that gives off more of a feminine look I guess. Big b's (curvy) and unshaven (all natural). Not saying girls with small b's or a shaven basement aren't feminine. I'm just not as attracted to them. I dunno. You like what you like I guess.
There are several morons on here (male) who make comments like that. Don't worry, those people are just ignorant fools
It's definitely a pedo thing to ask a woman to shave. Hair is naturally suppose to be there. It's creepy for a man to prefer her to look like a little girl. Boobs are different to cuz they come in ask different sizes and can't be changed
You’re 26 and don’t shave?
@Frank1010 Dude, read her responses to @joedalton below!
@Frank1010 fuck no I stopped shaving at like 18
I've had a similar experience to yours. I was dating a girl who was completely natural. I loved giving her oral sex except I always ended up with a mouthful of hair. When I asked if she'd shave, she asked if I was attracted to little girls. She could have said "no" in many different ways, instead she chose to equate my desire with that of a pervert.
I don't mind either way, and I admit that those girls tend to look teen-like.
I don't express my preferences when it comes to someone's looks or size of their boobs. It's something they were born with and they can't change that. When it comes to shaving or having a nicely manicured bush, I will see that when she undresses. I am attracted to women who have a trimmed bush or even cleanly shaved. It is not a deal breaker if they are not either one of these, however, if I am in a long-term relationship, I might suggest or even ask if they would be willing to manicure their bush. I know what a hassle it is to shave and how fast hair grows back and you often get ingrown hairs and lesion looking sores.
As far as the pedophile name calling, that is immaturity speaking and has no factual basis. The first time I had sex was with an American Indian girl; we were both 13 years old. She would not take her top off and I finally forced my hand up her top and felt of her tits. They were just nubs and she was so embarrassed. To this day, I'm attracted to young dark or olive skinned women. I suppose I am taken back to the time my life was changed forever. Of course I like a woman to have tits, but my young lover was not fully matured and I never faulted her because of that. Most women don't have big or huge tits nor do I really like them. They really pay for it when they get older and gravity sets in.
The bottom line is, I know what I'm attracted to and when I see someone that fits all of my criteria, I try and hang on to her. I never try and change or mold someone into who I want them to be against their will. They either are your type or their not, but that certainly doesn't mean I won't have sex with them once or twice, lol! Of course this is just my opinion and may not be yours.
I can’t stand it when people compare pubic hair removal to pedophilia! An adult body looks absolutely nothing like a prepubescent child spotty! Just because you remove pubic hair doesn’t make you a pedophile! I love the beauty of the human form. I hate body hair because it partially covers the beauty. I think all women should remove all body hair permanently. I am a 56 year old married, heterosexual man. I have removed all my body hair from the neck down. It feels good, it looks good, it’s more sensitive, and my wife likes it as well!
All I know is that the more I see this posts, the more glad I feel for not been born in a "west" country...
What about a billion East Asian men? Are they pedo?
No, but sometimes older women imply that about pubic shaving.
The clean crotch = kiddy lover logic makes no sense, because these same women often shave their armpits, yet pre-puberty children don't have that hair.
And ditto for men who can grow facial hair and yet decide to shave. Are women who like shaved men pedos too?
It's just silly.
Yeah, over my loathing of body hair, but I have no control over what nitwits say. Even when I was under 18 I only dated adult women.
It’s a bullshit tactic to gaslight you because she couldn’t just say “I don’t want to shave, sorry”
Def not a gaslight thing. Men are suppose to be attracted to that hair. It's creepy if they want it to look like a little girl
@Apple1996 Most young adult women today shave or wax their pubic hair, so asking a girl to shave or wax doesn't mean that you want her to look like a little girl. It means you want her to look lke other adult women. And it makes giving her oral sex more enjoyable for the guy.
@Apple1996 see you're doing it too. How do you figure "men should be attracted to that hair"? Women have been removing hair from their bodies since at least Ancient Egyptian times. Do you think you look like a little girl when you shave your legs or pits?
One girl asked if I might be slightly homosexual due to my boob preference. I don't think I would be accused of being a pedophile due to boob size preference because I like some hair in the genital area.
No I haven't ya freak. Probably nothing to worry about.
Not for that but because she was 19 years old
I know a lot of guys like me for this.
Because you have smaller boobs?
No, its called personal preference.
No, but this isn't really an issue for me since I like girls with big to huge natural boobs.
No, I've only mentioned breast sizes but those women were older than me and it'e be a catch 22 to call me that in the position tabled
I don't understand people who equate adult-aged petite women with smaller breasts as little girls. I think a lot of it is body shaming from White women due to their jealousy of Asian beauty.
A large amount or East Asian women have that body type throughout their adult lives and they're the majority of women on the planet.
Do those fat assed, big titted White women think billions of Asian men are pedophiles for dating Asian women too?
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