Canes can cause deep bruises, welts and deep bruises. I would never consent to being caned and I would never do it to a woman even if she asked. That's sado-masochistic shit. However, I do get erotic pleasure from spanking a woman's bare ass with my hand. It might make her skin pink, but causes no damage.
I like swatting a woman's ass, especially when I'm fucking her from behind. And one of my sick fantasies is to bend a woman over my knee, put one of my legs over hers to keep her from escaping, grasp her wrists with one hand, and spank her bare ass until it's red as she squeals, cries, wriggles, and begs me to stop. In reality, I would never do anything to a woman that she didn't want.
I was caned on my bare butt in front of the whole class at school. It was very humiliating and especially by the fact that I had an erection for the first time in front of others. The actual caning wasn't a pleasure at the time but I was sexually aroused by the humiliation
For some reason I feel like this is just your fantasy and not something that actually happened
I've not been on the receiving end, but I've been involved with giving spankings and I do know why some people like the feeling of pain as sexual pleasure:
In the brain there are receptors that light up in an MRI-scan. While subjecting people to sexual plesure and then pain, almost the exact parts of the brain lighted up. This is why some people enjoy pain; it is pleasant or arousing to them.
The level of pleasurable pain differs per person and it has also ties to BDSM because someone who is not into subsisting to their partner is less likely to enioy pain, but this the science behind the whole idea.
Submitting* not subsisting
I get caned once or twice a month. It hurts like hell. No pleasure and not aroused
Why do you get caned?
My lover is a bit of a sadist
It does not matter if it is his kink; if you don't want it to happen, then that is abuse.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I've caned a lot of women and none of them has ever bled. A guy needs to study and practice before caning his lady and then be careful. My ladies generally love it, esp when bound to a piece of furniture.
No but I've done it to a woman, we used a riding crop and it was used on her breasts, butt and pussy.
She was tied to the bed at the time, was dealing with a few toys put into places where only certain toys go and wearing a blindfold.
She had a fantastic time and so did I
I’ve caned quite a few people in a bdsm context and it can be anything from mild tapping to deep welts depending how hard you go/how much you warm them up. That said caning is generally considered one of the heavier/harsher forms of impact play. Spanking is at the other end of the spectrum as is something like a soft deer/suede flogger.
I been spanked with a paddle and with a riding crop but never caned no thanks way too much pain
I got caned, and didn't like it at all.
I did it only for her.
My wife has done it to me a few times. Sometimes its enjoyable and sometimes its not.
It depends if she warms me up first or not.
By Warming up I mean by starting out with light spankings and build me up for more.
Starting out cold is painful as a motherfucker and a complete turn off. When that happen I completely lose the mood.
Used to get caned regularly, didn't enjoy it though. My school caned us for being naughty 😂 bum & palms of hands, hurt like hell, does that count?
I dont even know what that is
Lol nvm of course I dont know what that is I'm not a trash submissive scrub
I was caned and that crap hurt. They were acrylic singles and bundles.
Why were you caned?
I worked at a porn shop that sold the canes. I took the licks out of curiosity.
Yes by my fiancée often
I find it very sexy being a sub towards a woman hehe
Wait- are those metal?
@mistixs
No clue
Well, they look metal to me. And that looks like it would hurt a LOT. The first time I heard you talk about "caning" I though you were referring to a wooden cane like the kind Kris Kringle had in "Miracle On 34th Street."
I don’t know what that is
you're hit with a stick, usually multiple times
I’ll pass on that
No thank you.
It was great being canned.
I like being spanked, hit with a crop, and paddled. Caning arouses me, but the pain is usually equal to the pleasure such that it feels good enough in the moment, but too painful to appreciate after the fact.
Not caned, but I have been pepper-sprayed, that sucked.
What's that place... Singapore? where they cane you if you break any of their rules/laws? Sorry, but I don't enjoy any pain-producing activities.
I've never experienced it, but I don't care for suffering pain.
Ugh - I think it would hurt a lot
As a kid Whenever I did some serious mistake I was caned by my father and it hurt like hell.
I agree same went for me. it fcking hurts
Yup But at least now I'm way disciplined as an adult.
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