Have you ever broken up solely because of something that happened in bed?

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Doing it like a rabbit!
There are some things that a partner could request in bed that would be an automatic end of the relationship, such as

-- let's have a threesome with your brother
-- let's go to a swingers' club and participate in an orgy
-- I want to take a shit on your dick

but there are other things that I would just say "no thanks' and keep going, such as doing a video. And there are some things that I have never done that I would try if it would make my partner happy.

Have you ever broken up with someone because of something they suggested, requested, or maybe even demanded in bed?
I've never been in a relationship
Vote A
I've been in a relationship, but never had a sexual relationship
Vote B
I've been in a sexual relationship, but never broke up because of a conflict concerning sex
Vote C
I've been in a sexual relationship, and ONCE I broke up because of a conflict concerning sex
Vote D
I've been in a sexual relationship, and SEVERAL TIMES I broke up because of a conflict concerning sex
Vote E
There's nothing my partner could ask for that would make me break up, even though I might not be willing to satisfy their request
Vote F
There's nothing my partner could ask for that would make me break up, because I would do whatever they requested
Vote G
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  • First of all anything involving feces and I'M OUT! Thankfully I have never had such a request...
    Anything like I want you to pee in my mouth or I want to pee on you or in you and IM OUT! Again never experienced this either. Phew... Though I have had a partner who constantly begged me to pee on his d! ck 🤷 I just laughed it off... And said no.

    Now there has been two times with two different people which I have walked off. Both times we had been making out. For me thats a lot of kissing and heavy petting OVER the clothing. And with both of these guys we were new to each other dating for a very short time. With the first guy I was very young 15 years old. I was so into the kissing I had noticed what he had done until he asked me to get up a little. I Began to stand while still kissing him and he then lightly tugged me forward. I realized he wanted me to straddle him which I was ok with Until I looked down and saw he whipped his d! ck out. I pulled away shaking my head thinking damn I didn't even try to rouch him there yet much less say I wanted to take it all the way. I just straightened my clothes, made an excuse and left. With the second guy I was older. Same thing making out under a blanket on the living room sofa but I got up to get us some glasses of wine. I came back giving him his glass he told me to get back under the blanket with him but to straddle him again Im fine with that position for a make out section. One I pulled the blanket back from him I was shocked to find he had pulled his junk out and was stroking it. I shook my head said no. It was a mood killer. We finished the wine and I told him it was getting late. I never made out or did anything else with either one of them again. Men who im just starting to know who whip their d! cks out just assuming I want it is a turn off for me. Kissing doesn't mean I want the d! ck.

    Now I must add I myself has scared a person off 🙈🤭. There was a college boyfriend. We dated for a while and had plenty of sexual encounters. Just a lot of stroking, touching and kissing. We talked about going all the way and even went to a sex store. We each went our own way so to surprise the other back in the dorm. He bought dental dam a vibray and flavor condoms. I bought lovers dice some kind of flavored gel, a blind fold and a pair of roll playing handcuffs (had a safty to release without a key). Everything was going smoothly. I he even allowed me to blind fold him and use the gel on him he was quite excited when I mounted him (no penetration though) and was fine when I had him put his hands over his head and hold the bars of the bed. But when I pull the hand cuff out and claps it to one hand he pulled the blind fold off and looked baffled. To shorten the story I guess I wigged him out. My explaining they were just toys and easy to get out of didn't relax him. We just stuck to hand jobs that night. Oh well I scared my little virgin college boy lol even though I was a virgin too I was a bit too much for him too bad I was willing to give it to him. We stayed together for a while longer but I didn't care to go all the way anymore. I was young and embarrassed by the rejection and embarrassed that I had been too kinky.

    • Thanks for the MHO 😊

  • Oh, what the fudge…lmaooooo
    Thw picture caught me off guard. 🤣🤣🤣

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    • I thought that picture would draw some attention to the question! :) :) :)

    • Lol. It certainly did!! 🤣

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Most Helpful Guys

  • No I have not, but I probably would in the future if I realized there wasn't any sexual compatibility to be honest. Sexual compatibility, for me, is a large factor in a healthy relationship. If your partner has no desire to fulfill your sexual desires and stay in their "comfort zone", then you'll always live with that desire being unfulfilled and it becomes a toxic weight on you. I would never leave a partner for being bad in bed. It's more so about their willingness to try and get better and also try new things. Communication and understanding is key. If they care about making you happy, I think they should be at least willing to listen to you and try stuff out. I understand there will be "Absolute No's" in some scenarios. For example, although I'm open to most things, I refuse to let anything go in or around my ass. That will never change. I can understand if the girl has some things she is completely against too and I'd respect them if they are within reason.

  • Sorta.
    I eventually divorced my first wife because of all the other guys she had in our bed.

    • But not REALLY funny!

    • It was a long time ago. Now I just enjoy the memory. I caught her twice.

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  • I wouldn't call it a relationship but I stopped seeing a guy cause he had a weird reaction to his own cum. I understand a guy might not like his own cum nor may not want to kiss me if I swallowed. But all I did was go to cuddle afterwards and he freaked out out it (when I haven't swallowed he was fine with it). He also finished inside me - the first time without a vondom and it went on his bed and made a mess and he got super angry and was almost shouting at me. Same when he wanted to cum on me and I got some on his arm he freaked out and got angry.

    It's so weird I've never met a guy like that again.

  • Yes, once.
    i was interested in a little bdsm and roleplay and she called me a freak. It wasn’t the only reason we broke up, but it definitely was a major factor! She really was awful in bed as well.

  • Never just from one incident, but more than a few for an 'ongoing pattern of poor performance.'

  • Yes I have. I broke up with my first girlfriend because of something she did in bed. I wasn't there.. my best friend was!

  • Not yet but I definitely would

  • I doubt my husband would ask anything I wouldn't be comfortable with, but if he did it definitely wouldn't be enough of an issue for me to leave him. But then I can't think of anything that would be.

  • My first girlfriend broke up with me because sex never happen because I was nervious.

  • Never made it this far in a relationship

  • I always broke up with someone for other reasons or else she dumped me for some random reason.

  • I will not do anal, or anything that involves bodily wastes.
    One partner asked me many times to use her back door. My response was that if I wanted to get shit on my cock I would have gone queer.

  • Somewhere between F&G.

    Anyway, she should be a vixen, not a rabbit. ;- )

    On Dancer, on Dasher- oh forget them - Get on VIXEN!
    On Dancer, on Dasher- oh forget them - Get on VIXEN!
  • Nope, never been in a relationship so I wouldn't know what to tell you 😅😅

  • Not really, It’s always been other things

  • I broke up with a girl almost immediately because she didn't like hair pulling.

  • No, That doesn't bother me much, but I will sever all relations with a women who was hiding her extremist political views just to be with a wealthy man

  • Last girl I was with broke up because of the sex, I don't blame her tho it was bad for me too

  • No. I’m not that petty

  • Yeah happened

  • My ex dumped me after sex. His older brother was a bully. So we were f*cking and it was nice, just as he was cumming his older brother hit from behind and knocked him out and locked him in the closet, he ejaculated over the floor. I was hysterical. Then the older brother had sex with me twice, I'm ashamed to say I came 4 times really hard and ejaculated which is something I never do soaking the bed sheets, I was terrified the whole time. He kept calling me a dirty slut and how I like a real man with a big dick and made me say how much bigger his dick was compared to my boyfriend. My boyfriend dumped me and called me a slut. I ended up dating his brother for a while as I was in such a bad place, my then ex boyfriend never looked me in the eye again. The brother is in jail now, he did the same thing to another couple. I had only turned 15.

    • This doesn't reallt sound like a charmed life!

  • Surprise anal. And blindfolding me, tying me down, and letting his friends fuck me to see if I could tell the difference. I would have gladly done both if he asked. But tricking me hurt more than the surprise anal penetration.

    one guy wouldn’t stop trying to convince me to let his dog fuck me. That was never going to happen. Maybe funny the first time he said it, but after the tenth time it was awful and gross.

    • I cannot imagine how awful that was for you!

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