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Sexual Health Girls, have you ever cried during sex?
Anonymous
My gf is 18 and so am I. We've been dating for about a year. Anyway, the 1st time we had sex she was crying. She kept telling me not to stop but I felt terrible because it looked like she was in pain. She still cries about 50% of the times we sex. Have you ever cried during sex? If so was it because you were in a lot of pain?
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I don't think she cries from pain because I sat her down yesterday and told her that if sex is painful enough to bring her to tears I'll do everything I can do to change that even if it means not having sex for awhile and she told me it wasn't necessary. I think she's just very emotional or had a traumatic sexual experience she doesn't want to talk about
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(65)I didn't cry and I recently lost my Virginity. Well I cried after because I regretted it. Because he was my ex and I still had feelings for him but he used me. He was a Virgin too. But she probably in pain and doesn't wanna disappoint you. Let her be in control perhaps On top so she can go at a pace she's comfortable with
I've cried once from pain. We stopped because it freaked us both out.
I don't cry because I'm in pain, I cry because it's so damn good and when I can't moan. I won't boo hoo cry but I will have tears in my eyes
girls hormones can be crazy, so maybe its because sex may be a big deal for her, and might be very overwhelming, we cry at everything if our hormones are out of balance, I cried when I found out my friends crush said hi to her once, that's obviously not normal. it could be because its painful? is she too tight? not wet enough? graphic, sorry but it needs to be asked lol. its possible that she's had a bad sexual encounter before, not necessarily rape, but possibly some form of sexual assault that she's too shy to open up to you about. sorry, im just trying to cover all the grounds :)
She is very tight. I don't mean to be graphic but it takes a lot of foreplay and me fingering her or eating her out for awhile before it'll fit so I think she's wet enough.
its probably another reason then, I think you should sit her down and just bluntly ask her :)
I'm a virgin but I can see myself crying during sex lol
Huh? No I haven't. I have no ide why she does that.
I have cried once , but it wasn't because of pain
If it wasn't pain why did you cry?
Yea, totally natural.
No, im a virgin
great way to freak a guy out lol
this is too weird to explain just ask her