Have you ever dated someone before who didn't like sex or would you date someone who doesn't like sex?

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  • Started dating someone who didn't seem to like foreplay or the idea of oral sex (me going down on her). It would have been a struggle.
    My OH has gone off sex since kids were born, maybe once a month, its hard. I'd like it much more frequently. Sex isn't everything in a relationship, but it is important

  • Worse…. I married her. But I didn’t know she didn’t like sex until after we married. While dating we had sex, I guess she just tolerated it to win me over.

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  • Like, dating is dating. As long as we know nothing else will happen, we can watch a movie or eat together. But I would be very blunt about that it's only temporary.

    The moment I find someone more compatible, it will have to come to an end. I'm definitely not a nun :D

    • So you’ll use someone emotionally and then discard them when you find someone better? That’s not very nice of you.

    • @Tim2nice no, as I wrote "But I would be very blunt about that it's only temporary." it will be his decision if he wants to date or not

  • The first thing my last boyfriend said to me was he wanted to wait til marriage for sex or sexual conversation. If I like a guy enough, a sexless relationship forever would be possible for me. But I save sex for marriage.

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  • Dating without sex is like. . . friendship. Good friendship. But it's not romance. And I don't date friends. And I wouldn't treat a female friend in the same way that I treat a romantic partner.

    • Would you go to a restaurant that doesn't serve food?

  • haven’t and i wouldn’t

  • She doesn't necessarily have to want sex with me, as long as she's having sex with some other lucky guy once in a while.

  • i will never date someone who doesn't like sex.

  • No. But as long as she let me have other women for that purpose and let me have her whenever or however I wanted despite not being into it, sure.

    • That’s a fair offer.

  • No, I need her to enjoy it. If I am going to commit to one girl and am going to be sexually exclusive I want us both to have an enjoyable sex life. I am the type of guy who isn't into hookups so for me sex is extra important in a relationship.

  • No I've never dated someone who didn't like it, and I wouldn't like to be with someone who never wants to have sex. It's not the most important thing, but it's important to be with someone you are attracted to and can be physically intimate with on a regular basis in my opinion.

  • No. That just wouldn’t work for me. I’m too horny.

  • I've done it, never again. Sexual compatibility is infinity more important than most people make it out to be.

  • I dated somebody who was saving it for marriage. I suspect she may not have liked sex.

  • I have couldn't understand why not. But nope never again

  • No and No.

  • Yeah, sure, one of my partners is mostly asexual, it's fine.

  • There would have to be some kind of arrangement where I can still get my needs fulfilled, otherwise no.

  • The only important romantic relation I had, was LD. I expected we both were gonna enjoy online sex, but in the lapse of 3 years, every attempt of having something sexual, became a disaster.

    Things like time zone, schedule incompatibility, sexual incompability; among other things, doomed what naturally had to be part of the relation.

    • I am not really sure if she didn't like online sex, or if in reality I never was sexually attractive for her on the first place. Only thing I can say is that, if your partner don't have enough trust in you, or don't appreciate entirely who you are, there'll be problems during sexual intimacy.

  • I never have and never would. The idea that a woman would expect a man to act like her boyfriend and give his time, attention, and resources while also being expected to defend her with his life when she isn't putting out is completely insane.

  • I have and would again.

  • I didn’t like sex before but boyfriend convinced me 😝

    • Well how did he do that?

    • @pickles77 just by being loving and understanding and having a big D

    • Lol that will do it!

  • Nope

  • Some people have different sex drives than others, so that can cause some issues sometimes.

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