Have you ever googled how to pleasure your partner better, or how to make sex more enjoyable for them?

Was it specifically because it was your first time or their first time? Did you do it out of curiosity? Because you really liked them? Because you were self conscious about your performance? Any other reasons?

Would you expect a partner to have done this? Would you be disappointed if they hadn't?
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Yes. I haven't had sex/participated in sexual activities, but I've researched it
Vote B
Not yet. I haven't had sex/participated in sexual activities, but I would research it before I did
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No. I have had sex/participated in sexual activities, but I haven't researched it
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I just want to see the results
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I’m a perfectionist and I’m pretty much always trying to make things better in general. When I started having sex with my second partner, I realized he was a lot more experienced than me, so I googled little tips and tricks to do during sex and I would try them on him the next day. He ultimately thought I was cheating on him and someone else was teaching me new things. I probably should’ve told him lol but I liked that jealousy and it kept him on his toes. I just have this thing where i always want it to be great for the guy. I guess in the beginning I was self conscious. Honestly now I still google things, I’m not even having sex lol I just want to know as much as I can.
    I don’t really expect a guy to google things, It would be nice if they did cuz I’d be more satisfied but I wouldn’t be disappointed.

    • I get you, I'm a perfectionist too. What happened when he thought that? Did you confront him about it?😬

    • I never told him the truth because I felt intimidated and didn’t want to confess to learning stuff on google. I did tell him I wasn’t sleeping with anyone else though, but he didn’t believe me so I just let him think what he wanted. Sometimes I think he would work harder during sex because he wanted to ‘outdo’ the guy that didn’t even exist, but it worked in my favor lol

    • Omg 😅Personally I think you shouldn't feel ashamed for something like that. If anything he would probably find it hot that you wanted to please him. That being said, the fact that he didn't believe you shows a lack of trust, so maybe it's better that it didn't work out. And at least you got good sex out of it haha

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  • When i started dating my boyfriend the skill gap was quite significant so i googled how to please him better hahaha i think everyone has done it at some point

    • Lol i dont think many have done it.. like they say.. practice makes perfect :)

    • Yes obviously practice is better but knowing what to do is a big help hahaha

    • Lol I have definitely googled way too many things, I'm with you on that one

Most Helpful Guys

  • Several things. Still closeups photos and even anatomy diagrams really do provide helpful road maps for where things are and what they look like. But more important, I am a short round with a quick trigger and and not Don Juan at intercourse. At a certain point, I needed a crash course in fingering and cunnilingus and found this book on Amazon.

    Have you ever googled how to pleasure your partner better, or how to make sex more enjoyable for them?

    It changed everything for me in the bedroom. Initially girls may find fingering kind of adolescent but when you get them to cum in minutes and then cause them to slap the floor during the oral that follows, they get it.

    • Dayum, I'm impressed. Honestly I asked the question because a couple of female friends were discussing how we'd all researched it at some point and some of us thought guys must have too, while others weren't sure. I was expecting many not to have researched it. I think maybe you could give those guys a lesson or two!

    • I used a book my sister had called I ❤ Female Orgasm. She actually was at a talk the authors gave in college. Surprisingly more guys were interested in it than girls

  • I found a video online on how to finger and eat out a pussy.

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  • No I have not

  • Nope

  • I just did it for fun, Google e. g. how to convince girls for blow job or anal... :)

  • Information is Knowledge. Knowledge is Power. Power is Control. And in this case, Control is Happiness.

    • A+ answer I'm 100% with you on that. After having a discussion with friends, we couldn't agree on whether girls or guys were more likely to research. This would suggest guys which honestly, I'm a little surprised at. But I am all for learning it all!

  • no i didn't google it, i tried new things and took notes of her reactions, since everyone is different it's trial and error based learning.

  • Yes I have Nina Hartly has a great video on how to eat pussy . I learned a lot from there and others sites. you can never learn to much.