Have You Ever Had Sex With Someone That Was Already "Spoken For"? And Did You Know "Beforehand" Or Find Out "After"?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

[JesseCraft07]

I'm a virgin so no. But I definitely wouldn't sleep with a girl that I know is in a relationship

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

That's good 👍

[JesseCraft07]

Yepp 🙂

[JesseCraft07]

Lol didn't think I'd be talking to you about sex haha, well I guess it's not much hags

[JesseCraft07]

Haha*

[QuietRunner]

I knew before hand

[gandolph3]

Yes , beforehand

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

And that didn't bother you?

[gandolph3]

How about you

[gandolph3]

She came to me,

[bigstic507]

Yes and knew

[slim12e]

Both

[Anonymous]

I have 3 times technically, and two of them I knew all of which happened in the space of two weeks. It was the period of my life that I regret the absolute most and I hated myself for some time because of it.
The first was a work colleague about 15 years older and all of us was drinking and doing Coke (the latter was my first time) it was an entirely different sensation and didn't really feel in control when it happened but I had some coherent thoughts in my head. I never made any moves on him, and he told me about his marriage I even tried to tell him to fix it, it happened in an alleyway he kissed me felt me up and then we sorta had sex about 30 seconds a min later said I shouldn't be doing this I'm married and stopped. Never had I felt more shittier in my life when I realised what I let myself do.
A few days later I got drunk and had sex again with a bloke who I found out was engaged to my boss which I had no clue about. And two weeks later I went to a speed dating event, where I met this dude and his friends had sex with the dude all four of us slept on the bed and the friend and boyfriend fingered me.

And there you have it, took me almost a year to recover myself and I still have the big fear of would I stop myself if any of this happened again and although I believe I would I'm not 100% sure I have that control

[Anonymous]

Yes, at least twice. I found out after. Felt like I wasted my time and had been used.

[Anonymous]

spoken for?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Old fashioned for already involved, in a committed relationship with someone else 🤣🤣

[Opinion Owner]

then I have

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Did you know beforehand or find out after?

[Opinion Owner]

I did know

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

So you're okay with your boyfriend, partner, husband sleeping with someone else 🤔

[Anonymous]

When I was 19 my next door neighbors wife whould ask me to "vist".

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

So did you "visit"

[Opinion Owner]

Oh all the time, I've jumped out the window a few times.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

To each their own Lol there's just lots of reasons I don't wanna be messing around with someone already in a relationship with someone else, or even messing around with other people.. just me or nothing 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Anonymous]

Yes but it was over 10 years ago. He had told me he was married and had not had sex in 6 years with each other. He has since had a divorce but we are not together, I did not love him. I have since not since been with anyone in a relationship already in any way and I confessed.

[Anonymous]

Yup found out after lol he randomly showed on Facebook as people I may know. And there are wedding photos around the time we slept together

[Anonymous]

I have a few times my most recent guy got a call form his wide during intercourse

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

How would you feel tho if you were that wife?

[Opinion Owner]

Horrible but I'm not so whatever

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Until you are. So 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Opinion Owner]

Well if that happens and i find his my husband balls will go missing

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

So your husband shouldn't do that to you.. But it's okay to hello someone do that to another woman... If your husband dies that to you.. KARMA 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

*does

[Opinion Owner]

Well he better be sneaky.