Have you ever masturbated more for relief than pleasure?

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I did once. My friend dared me to go for a month without masturbating and I was crazy horny by week 3. I was laying in bed reading an erotic story while my roommate was asleep and I just couldn't help myself. I shoved my pants down, rubbed myself frantically and came in less than two mins (my fastest ever). Afterward, I was so drained I could barely move. I was still horny, so after I caught my breath I touched myself more slowly till I came again (took about 20 mins this time).

ZeussLightningBolt · Accepted Answer

Don't get mad, but this story turned me on. That's fucking hot.

Yeah, this usually happens when I'm on a trip. My record is 13 days. I try to deliberately hold it in until I get home, but sometimes, as was the case with you, something happens and I simply can't hold it anymore.

Okay, I'll tell you one 'cuz I have a bunch. The feeling is basically the same each time, just my reason for becoming horny is different.

So as you know, I have a foot fetish. I was in Taipei and I had already been horny when I got on the plane in San Francisco. I had never been into Asian girls, but for some reason seeing "real" Asian girls for the first time really turned me on. Those flight attendants looked SO hot. Than when I got to Taipei, holy shit I had never seen so many sexy women, or feet for that matter. So yeah, I'm THAT gut. I was checking out Taiwanese girls' feet. Holy shit, I'd never seen such sexy feet. So yeah I was pretty much horny throughout my trip. Than over a week into my trip, there was this lady in the hotel lobby. She was wearing those toeless slippers. She had a tattoo, and long toes and nail beds which were painted red. Anyways, I watched her as she slipped her feet out of her slippers and began to wiggle her toes and dangle her slipper. Than she started rubbing her leg with her foot.

I think that was the day we went to the tea place. We got back to our hotel around 1. The image was still fresh in my head.
At this point my dick was beginning to tingle and needed relief. But I still wanted to break my no fap record. So I went into the bathroom, pulled my pants down, and stood over the sink. As I've done on many ocassions I intended to just stroke it for a few minutes, than put it back. But it felt SOOOOOO good I couldn't stop, and I eventually reached the point where I couldn't stop, so I just said. "Fuck my record," began stroking as fast as I could, and blew a massive load into the sink. Part of which landed on the wall and floor. The maid had some cleaning up to do. Just as with you, and as usually happens I was still horny after that. Since my record was already fucked I thought, "Why the hell should I torture myself, and just masturbated in the shower during the remainder of my stay, fantasizing about girls and feet I had seen.

So yeah, that's just one of MANY stories.
God damnit, I have SO many stories. May be I'll tell you some time. There's another one you might really like.

Twice I did it after visitinga nude beach, and a few times to porn

ManFrom1982 · Accepted Answer

I think, though other guys may say I'm off base on this (as may other girls for that matter) that this is a much more common male experience. For instance, I've done it before at work on several occasions just because my sex drive was distracting and needed my f#*! ing focus back so I could design freaking security policies in a timely manner, but that's just the most recent example. I've been doing "speed sessions" since high school where I would duck into the boys bathroom between classes, trying to beat the tardy bell, because I was freaking tired of trying to adjust myself to walk/sit comfortably with my twelfth boner of the day when it was only the end of third period.

EleganceOfBanana · Accepted Answer

Back when i did gymnastics and had that one Leotard.
During that certain day, i wore my new Leotard with an sewn Pad in the crotch area.
What i did not notice, was that the pad was bulging inside and was kinda stiff and it pressed against my crotch, especially my clit, when i did certain movements.

It droves me crazy on a good and bad way at the same time, cause i could not do anything against cause it was an Tournament training.
So i had do resist the urge to masturbate , on one side, the movements made great pleasure so i could do it on that way, but on the other hand i had the urge to touch it with my hands.

After 4h of training, i spend about 40 minutes in the Shower just masturbating xD

Elliegirl · Accepted Answer

I’ve been there. When my husband and I were dating, he had a trip for like three weeks. He promised he wouldn’t masturbate if I would do the same, then we would have sex with amazing orgasms when he got back. I had been teasing him before he left, so he turned the tables on me and teased me the entire time he was gone. I got so worked up and needed the relief so much I FaceTimed him one night, told him I couldn’t take it anymore, and let him watch me finger myself.

Josh49 · Answer

I do to relief myself if not I can cum at night while sleeping

Hurlyburly · Answer

Umm yes, pretty much every time I ever did that.

CuriousAnt · Answer

Most of the time I can't go more than 24 hours without masturbating. However there where times where I tried to abstain for a while in order to regain sensitivity.

One time I managed to go for a week without masturbating, and I was getting incredibly horny. I was flirting with a girl I met on Tinder, and we ended up talking about how much she turned me on... And how I ended up jerking off for her. It was an incredibly pleasurable and big cum shot, it felt so good. For the next few days I wasn't able to stop masturbating for her, and she encouraged it in various ways. She took it as a compliment, and I enjoyed giving her compliments 😉

The longest I've been without masturbating was 111 days. I went through phases of incredible horniness where I wasn't able to think anything but sex, but sticked with it for some reason. I would see a cute girl in the elevator in my building, and I could feel the cum involuntarily leaking from my erect dick while smiling at her. At some point I had sex, and after that I decided I had enough from abstaining from masturbation and finally did it.

In both cases it was a huge relief to finally get the pleasure I wanted. However, the reason I masturbated was still because I really craved the pleasure. So technically the answer is no. But the first story (the first time I masturbated for her) is the most amazing orgasm that I have had from masturbating. It was a prolonged series of cum shots, it felt amazing and my torso was covered everywhere with cum.

MrMysteryMan · Answer

Lately it's been that way...

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Sometimes for stress and anxiety.

lovelygirl1234 · Answer

I masturbate when I have depression or anxiety

low_life · Answer

I masturbate daily if I can, and most of the time it’s to relieve myself cuz my clit just begs for attention Lmao

JoyKJ7 · Answer

Yup. To go to sleep

xTom98 · Answer

I dont masturbate, its a habit I dropped when I changed my attitude (arround 2-3 years ago). I tend to just meet up with a friend or go out instead 🤷 I know, Im weird lol

ecfresh · Answer

I do that a lot in the morning. When I have just had a series of very erotic and sex charged dreams. You know the ones, where in the middle of the dream you actually realize you are in a dream and can start to control the action. Call in other people and change the story to heat things up. I wake up with morning wood and figure I need to complete the story in the real world, my dream wants closure.

wankiam · Answer

i sometimes wank like that... start with a quicky and then after shooting a load im still so horny i carry on playing for a couple of hours

sawno · Answer

This week my stress hormones are up to 11 causing all kinds of behavior including me having an insane sex drive. Not sure if masturbation helps or harms but i do give myself a lot of relief this way at least tempoarily.

CarpetDenim · Answer

Me irl after getting off my period every month

TadCurious · Answer

I have sort of a similar story but I was probably younger. When I was 14 I got concerned that I'd never had a wet dream. I'd had sex ed and heard all about how it's normal for boys to get wet dreams. I'd already had my first ejaculation like the year before, so I knew it wasn't that I wasn't physically mature enough. So I came up with this idea that I'd abstain from masturbating. That was because I'd heard or been taught that wet dreams were the body's way of getting rid of built up semen. I went a whole month and it didn't happen. So finally I couldn't take the horniness any more and I masturbated and it had to have been the most voluminous ejaculation I'd had up to that time. I'm sure it felt really good but it was just more like a relief.

PixiSophie · Answer

If I can't do it for some time it builds up and I need to release ☺️

ATuairiscean · Answer

Hmmmm interesting concept - I have masturbated for physical, nervous release rather than pleasure so I suppose that counts as relief - The longest I have gone without ejaculation that I was counting was 15 days but like you is was a pent up release rather than truly pleasurable where you feel it tingle in your body afterwards for a while - You are right though the mind is the biggest obstacles thinking about how long it is since... seems to make you more horny