I have been questioning my identity since college and I’ve come to this conclusion: although I primarily prefer guys and will almost definitely marry a guy someday, I will get sexual with a girl if I’m horny enough, I’m single, there are no cute single guys around and (most importantly) I trust her.
I am allowing anon responses to protect people’s privacy. Have you ever questioned your sexual identity?
Have you ever questioned your sexual identity?
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I wouldn't say I have, but I was bullied quite a lot at school as I was shy and not keen on sport. I was sometimes called "gay" and until leaving school I think I felt I probably was regarded as that in a lot of people's eyes. I think it didn't help that I had girlfriends a lot later than most of my peers. Once I got my confidence that feeling of how people perceived me disappeared. I think it's perfectly normal to question it at some point in your life though without rgjse factors.
No, I know my identity. And am not falling for the "PC BS" they are spouting about 15+ identities or whatever the BS number is now.
To fuck a guy he has to be hot and single, and to fuck a girl you shoud only trust her? so you have a very high standards for guys, but for girls you only need trust, what if, when you are horny and you have to choose between an average man and a hot woman, whom do you trust, what would you choose?
Haha you think trust is a throw away thing yet you think hot and single are qualities to be lorded over trust? And we wonder why everyone is sexually confused
I'm like you, I thought I was straight but now i realised that I'm bisexual, because when i'm horney i can fuck anything that moves that moves.
No never, buy i say i'm bisexual to get attention.
Why?
Because guys like bisexual girls
I guess...
I have not -- totally straight. But kinky, so I understand when others are not straight. It wants what it wants.
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So you have TOO high standards for males but you are okay with average female. That's the scene?
Not what I said.
It means the same. Almost.
How is trusting someone low standards?
I’ve tried kissing my friend before to see what it was like with a girl it was ok but I’m just attracted to girls like guys
That’s cool. And I think I get it.
I meant to say not attracted to girls like guys sorry
Yeah, I defo get that. I’m kinda like that too.
I thought I might be asexual for a bit, but I think I was just a bit of a late bloomer... if that makes sense lol. I'm pretty positive I'm actually straight.
yes i have
never have, no. not shaming you for yours. For some reason, I get F/F and doesn't bother me so much. I don't get m/m, blech.
Thank you.
I did. Then I got high and realized nope, I am most certainly straight
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