Have you ever questioned your sexual identity?

I have been questioning my identity since college and I’ve come to this conclusion: although I primarily prefer guys and will almost definitely marry a guy someday, I will get sexual with a girl if I’m horny enough, I’m single, there are no cute single guys around and (most importantly) I trust her.

I am allowing anon responses to protect people’s privacy. Have you ever questioned your sexual identity?
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  • Never

  • I wouldn't say I have, but I was bullied quite a lot at school as I was shy and not keen on sport. I was sometimes called "gay" and until leaving school I think I felt I probably was regarded as that in a lot of people's eyes. I think it didn't help that I had girlfriends a lot later than most of my peers. Once I got my confidence that feeling of how people perceived me disappeared. I think it's perfectly normal to question it at some point in your life though without rgjse factors.

  • No, I know my identity. And am not falling for the "PC BS" they are spouting about 15+ identities or whatever the BS number is now.

  • To fuck a guy he has to be hot and single, and to fuck a girl you shoud only trust her? so you have a very high standards for guys, but for girls you only need trust, what if, when you are horny and you have to choose between an average man and a hot woman, whom do you trust, what would you choose?

    • Haha you think trust is a throw away thing yet you think hot and single are qualities to be lorded over trust? And we wonder why everyone is sexually confused

  • I'm like you, I thought I was straight but now i realised that I'm bisexual, because when i'm horney i can fuck anything that moves that moves.

  • No never, buy i say i'm bisexual to get attention.

    • Why?

    • Because guys like bisexual girls

    • I guess...

  • I have not -- totally straight. But kinky, so I understand when others are not straight. It wants what it wants.

    • Cool

  • So you have TOO high standards for males but you are okay with average female. That's the scene?

    • Not what I said.

    • It means the same. Almost.

    • How is trusting someone low standards?

  • I’ve tried kissing my friend before to see what it was like with a girl it was ok but I’m just attracted to girls like guys

    • That’s cool. And I think I get it.

    • I meant to say not attracted to girls like guys sorry

    • Yeah, I defo get that. I’m kinda like that too.

  • I thought I might be asexual for a bit, but I think I was just a bit of a late bloomer... if that makes sense lol. I'm pretty positive I'm actually straight.

  • yes i have

  • never have, no. not shaming you for yours. For some reason, I get F/F and doesn't bother me so much. I don't get m/m, blech.

    • Thank you.

  • I did. Then I got high and realized nope, I am most certainly straight

    • Cool