Have you ever questioned your sexuality?

"Have You Ever Questioned Or Second Guessed it?"

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  • I actually went through a traumatic time during which I realized I was wrong about my sexuality.

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  • I never questioned it. I just knew I liked boys and girls. My first boy crush was when I was 6 years and my first girl crush was at 9 years old. Today I prefer men but will have fun with women.

  • Not majorly so - Maybe fleeting thoughts but nothing enough to make me think deeply - Anyway I say you fall for the person not the gender, race, faith so I actually believe the labels are pointless so if I did fall for a man do be it

  • I had always thought of my sexual orientation as one thing up until last year when I realized that it was something else. Sometimes that happens in midlife.

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  • I'm bisexual so naturally yes I started questioning myself really early on at around 5

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  • I have. I’m pretty secure in my sexuality rn though.

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  • Not really. I’ve had fantasies involving other women before, but I’ve always been into guys and don’t think I could ever have a romantic relationship with another woman. Fantasies are just that- fantasy.

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  • Luckily no.
    100% want man.

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  • There's only one way to make babies. Just saying, not that I want any... So logically, I have no reason to doubt it.
    Otherwise, there would be all kind of holes laying around and waiting to be used 🤔... How comes I don't hear anyone being vacuumocleanisexual? Or caroxhaustisexual? All people think about is either being the other gender or liking a different gender than usual... Why is everyone so uncreative? It's 2019, you creatures!

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  • Ruby Rose makes me question my sexuality! Would instantly go lez for her lol

  • Yes, I consider muself straight because I do not develop romantic nor sexual feelings towards females and enjoy dating men because I like feeling safe and protected even though I feel like if an apocalipse started and killed all men it would be pretty easy for me to swich to women because the idea of sex with a female does not really repulse me, I feel neutral about it. Also I am an artistic soul so I appreciate both male and especially female beauty. And I have a certain curiosity over certain sexual experiences from a guys perspective with the woman as the subject. Some people may call me bi or bi-curious for these things so I often wonder in which category do I really fall in.

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  • Yeah, there have been times where I've looked at my close friends (mostly just one) and wondered what it would be like to be in a romantic/sexual relationship with her

  • Yes, I still do but I don't make it a big deal anymore because it's too complicated and labels aren't that important to me.

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  • I tried to be open to the possibility but that’s just impossible. The thought alone of it is repulsive to me, just the thought of me being that way however. I don’t mind others being gay or open towards other sexualities.

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  • I have a couple times. I find women extremely attractive but I’m not really attracted TO them if that makes sense. Not really sure if that means anything though.

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  • It's tough to know exactly what you mean but, I've known that I've had sexual feelings and it's basically been a battle to know which times I need to exercise control and other times where I should address my feelings, it is not easy to do

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  • Yeah, but mostly bc I wanted to be bi/gay. Men are really difficult to deal with sometimes and I feel like I would understand a woman better because we’d be similar. Too bad I’ve never felt sexual desire towards a woman before.

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  • I didn't just question it: I full on INTERROGATED it. I used the good cop bad cop technique, turns out good cop is straight and bad cop was lesbian. So yeah, I'm bi.

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  • I did question my sexuality when I started crushing on one of my female friends in elementary.

    • Thanks for being open and honest 🥰♥️

    • No problem. I’ve got zero time for closeted lies.

  • not once. not even a little I knew what my orientation was and knew i was interested in women and that hasn't changed since i was a kid

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