Have you ever used your safe word?

[Anonymous]

If you and your partner set up a safe word, have you ever used it? Why did you use it? Did they respect the command or carry on? What happened after you used it, did you carry on with something else or stop completely? How did you feel about your partner after that? Did you ever try the act again or was it a hard limit?

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

My partner and I have a safe word, and she has used it. Considering we can just tell one another when things aren't right, using the safe word is kind of extreme so we treat it like a kill switch: when you hear the safe word, you shut it all down.

We also have a safe gesture and a song that can be hummed (it's the theme to Gilligan's Island haha). You know, in case we're not in a position to speak or use hands.

[connnie169]

I don't have a "safe word". If I don't like something I tell him.

[Asker]

Oh I see, just came fro the xper points huh! I know your game... ;)

[fauchelevent]

I've used my safe word before, yeah.

[Asker]

What happened after, did you carry on or was it a mood killing moment? Did your partner respect the safe word?

[fauchelevent]

I don't think that a safe word is ever a mood kill. I mean, if you're using your safe word, then the mood beforehand wasn't very good, was it? :) And no, you don't carry on after using a safe word. You generally stop everything and try to calm down. My partner always respects my safe word.

[love2run13]

What is a "safe word"?

[Asker]

A safe word is a pre-agreed word you and your partner choose to indicate that you are not happy with what is going on sexually. It is usually a word that has no place during sexual relations, like wardrobe, or peanut or Mustang (anything that isn't stop, no, help - reason being some people like to role play non-consent and these normal words to stop things could be used as part of that role play, so a non-related word that you would never normally say is chosen).

[love2run13]

Oh, never used one.

[ArabianPwincess197]

What is a safe word? What safe word?

[Asker]

A safe word is a pre-agreed word you and your partner choose to indicate that you are not happy with what is going on sexually. It is usually a word that has no place during sexual relations, like wardrobe, or peanut or Mustang (anything that isn't stop, no, help - reason being some people like to role play non-consent and these normal words to stop things could be used as part of that role play, so a non-related word that you would never normally say is chosen).

[ArabianPwincess197]

Oh I haven't used it. I had no clue what it was until now

[Anonymous]

Yeah, we've done that.

[Anonymous]

Yes, my partner and I have used a safe word.

[Anonymous]

What is a safe word?

[Asker]

A safe word is a pre-agreed word you and your partner choose to indicate that you are not happy with what is going on sexually. It is usually a word that has no place during sexual relations, like wardrobe, or peanut or Mustang (anything that isn't stop, no, help - reason being some people like to role play non-consent and these normal words to stop things could be used as part of that role play, so a non-related word that you would never normally say is chosen).

[Opinion Owner]

No I haven't used it.