Haven't sucked a dick in 2 years what do you guys like in a blow job?

Question

Only been with one guy ever who was a virgin. I am going to fuck a guy who has been w many girls. I feel like imma give a bad bj lol. Help

I was thinking lick it and look at him before i put it in my mouth. Do I just put his balls in my mouth? Do I lick them? I've tried like traction do you know what i mean? Like Squeezing lips more together does that feel good or no difference? And do i lick his dick while its in my mouth? Can u tell tongue when your dick is already in her mouth?

he wants to gag me im scared lol how do i not throw up lol and tips for a sore throat after :( he has a bigger dick than my ex. I want his first time with me to be good but I don't know how to suck dick anymore

Dargil · Accepted Answer

*Concentrate mouth play on the head (glans).
*Bob and suck it to just below the ridge (corona). The shaft won't feel it much.
*You can alternate to suckling it like an infant on a pacifier with bobbing and sucking.
*You can tease the glans by swirling your tongue around it and probing into the little hole.
*Avoid scratching the head with your teeth. It can break his momentum.
*Stroke his penis with one hand while you suck. Do it with two fingers on the top and your thumb on the rounded "vein" on the underside. Stroking this way induces the prostate to engorge and ejaculate. Stroke rapidly with a moderate grip.
*Use your other hand to cup and kneed his sack. He may like that index finger teasing his anus.
*Always build sexual tension. Do not pause or slow down because he can lose his momentum and even kill the blowie altogether.
*When he begins to ejaculate, stop all mouth motion on the glans (it will distract him) while he ejaculates and just straight suck only. If you can catch the rhythm of his spritzes, draw them out like pulling on a straw.
*Also while he ejaculates, continue to stroke more slowly until he is finished. It will coax out the later spritzes.
*Then Continue to straight suck with no mouth motion until he drains and unplugs.

*Probably not the only way or the right way, but works for me.

RespectfulGuy · Accepted Answer

He wants to gag you?

If you're not confident, may I suggest you only go as far as deep throating.

The difference is, deep throating is you having full control inserting his dick into your throat, while gaging is he doing it and you need to go in concert with his thrusting.

For now, only allow deep throating and let him know.

The key to deep throating is to relax and breathe.

And to succeed, try it at home before you meet him.

Use a dildo about his size or perhaps a carrot.

Don't just poke in. You'll hurt yourself.

Learn the timing when you insert, take a deep breathe. And let it enters while you hold. Then take it our and breathe out. Then repeat and breathe in.

It's about timing and and relaxing. And take it slow. And yes, BREATHE.

Once you get the timing to breathe in and breathe out right, you should be able to deep throat.

Leave gaging to next time.

Happy practicing.

Leapfrog00 · Answer

Make sure you use lots of saliva. Yeah, a guy can tell if you're using your tongue. When he cums, you probably want to ease up with the tongue because it can make the orgasm a little too intense.

Caress his skin while you're doing it, like caress his legs and pubic region. The better it feels, the harder his dick will probably get in your mouth.

You can squeeze your lips together if you'd like. The key is lots of spit and thrusting it in and out of your mouth. After he cums, if you don't swallow, show him his cum in your mouth. That drives a lot of guys wild! Good luck!

Billlewis · Answer

Get on the floor on your knees, purse your lips and bob up and down on his cock, varying your technique and the amount of pressure you're exerting on his cock. be very enthusiastic and happy that you're sucking his cock, and when you inevitably start getting tired, don't stop until you simply can't go on any more, because oftentimes, when you're at the end of your energy reserves, that's the exact moment when he'll start climaxing. And whatever you do, don't forget about his balls and asshole. Good luck!

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Actual suction. Not like you're sipping tea on the patio. I mean like you're trying to pull a watermelon through a coffee stirrer. So many women fail there.

slatyb · Answer

Just start slowly and see what works. It's going to be different for every guy.

DO NOT PULL ON IT. That's is not pleasant at all. Move your mouth, not the penis.

I'm sure there are instructive videos you could watch.

bowenw · Answer

Traction is feels nice as is licking when it's in your mouth.
If you're worried about gagging control the depth by holding your hand against your lips. You will be good at it. Ask him if what you're doing feels good.

Mansearching · Answer

All the above. Except biting. Nibbling maybe. When he's about to cum pull back suck his head until he stops. Then go back down clean it up. Make sure you swallow.

mommymommymommy · Answer

I don't condone what you're doing BUT, just remember, to pay attention to the balls too. Too many girls forget about the balls

Surely · Answer

There isn’t many things that you can do with your mouth that a guy wouldn’t appreciate!  Just don’t bite unless he asks for it.  The gaging part is optional on your end.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Sounds like you like to please

MeatPuppet · Answer

When hands are minimally used and my load is promply swallowed, thereby avoiding a awkward mess.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Getting swallowed

riverrat3 · Answer

Ask him how he likes it

ThebestIndian · Answer

I would say not to bite it, maintain eye contact. Start with slow pace and then, shift your gears.

tallblondejohm · Answer

For u to swallow

Mr_Ant · Answer

Just ask him what he likes and do not do anything you are not comfortable with. If he protests, tell him to do something you know might gross him out, like lick your butthole. That should make him see the light. However, that might backfire if he is willing though. Heh. Anyway, just take your cues and instructions from him, up to the point of you not being into it. If you are not into something, just say no. If he gets mad over that, he is not the right guy for you or anyone else really. Take care.