He beats me during sex?

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He Beats Me During Sex ok. We had recently broken up. He "caught" me over a male friends home and went ballistic. I was afraid to go home (he had moved into my home) so I stayed at my male friends home for a few hours after the big blowup he caused. I was so afraid I had my friend and a friend of his follow me home to make sure I was safe and to see if my boyfriend was still there. He wasn't. He had packed all his belongings and left. 

We were calling on the cell phones and texting. Me trying to explain. Him furious. About a week later I thought that things had calmed down and I allowed him over. I should have known. He immediately made me get to my knees and give him oral. He called me horrible names in the process. Talked to me like I was the filthies ***** in the world. Then he ordered me to the bed. Me, not thinking anything of it, got in the bed. Sex started of normal except the look in his eye. Just cold. Then he asked if I used a condom when I ****** the other guy. I tried to brush it off but my insides began to rumble. I knew I was in trouble. We were in the missionary position and out of nowhere came the first slap. He kept screwing me. Then another couple of slaps. More screwing. Then there was punching in the jaw, head, ribs, stomach. Hair pulling and biting. He sucked and kissed my neck and then began biting me so hard. The beating and screwing went on so long and I was so weak. I begged him to stop hitting me. I told him I loved only him and that he was hurting me. He didn't stop. He threw me off the bed into a corner by a windowsill. I remember him hitting me in the head so hard my head would bump the windowsill... and then blood began running down my neck, shoulders my back and my breast. He didn't stop beating me. He stomped my in the chest so hard I almost blacked out. He spits in my mouth and on my face during sex. He will beat me like crazy and then tell me to get naked and spread my hooha. Then he will just stare. He sees my tears and pain

thera · Accepted Answer

This is NOT love!! IT IS NOT IT IS NOT IT IS NOT!! This is rape, especially if you aren't enjoying it and he's physically harming you! This is NOT a person who loves you, because love does NOT hurt like this! Please call the cops on him, because like another person just said, this is a person that will one day kill you! This 'love' isn't real, and I want you to know that! Get out now, before it gets any worse than it already is!! Please do!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Firstly, you have a choice
Tell your parents and ask them to take you to the police station. Then you can press charges and take an avo out against him
Like the other guy said, a person like this will kill you one day.
There is support out there and you are not alone in this

Bedlington · Accepted Answer

OMG im so sorry to hear this i hope you are ok. if i was in your position i would call the police and file an assult against him and get him arrested no one deserves that kind of treatment and he is not a man when he hits a female he is nothing but a coward

Bimbobambo · Accepted Answer

Call the police or you're dead sooner than you think. This guy hates you, so wake up and leave him already! Dont do or say anything stupid, just go to the police and tell them exactly what you told us. Also make sure your parents know but call them from the police station, I dont know what he does if he sees you doing that at home.

Rahdle · Accepted Answer

That is terrible and unacceptable. If this is true, I'm so sorry. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. You should call the cops on him

AustinMan · Answer

Can you spell assault and litigation?

pinkbubble · Answer

Call the police , I don't know tell ur friends or smth...

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

call the cops on his ass. case closed.

Juspham · Answer

While he's away at work or something pack your belongings and go to a friends house (one where you boyfriend doesn't know the location) and call the police on him

TripleAce · Answer

Why Are you scared to file a report isn't it more scary to not file a report and be alone... i dont get that logic Find someone to trash this guy... pay them... anything... id wreck him real good

atcnew · Answer

CALL THE POLICE! and do it NOW!!! , he will kill you someday,

RationalMale · Answer

You do realize this would qualify as aggravated battery/felony battery/rape to any cop, had you called after this incident?

OpenWine · Answer

Police, more likely a mercenary or whatever makes such people not live anymore.

OnionsNstuff · Answer

alright what is your question?

MarkTwain · Answer

Well, I like to be dominate but never to the point where I break someones heart. This is bad, you need to tell him you are not ready for this, and you have your limits and he is crossing them. No matter what if you say stop he needs to stop, if not it becomes a crime; you need to protect yourself. You seem sweet to let it last this far, but no more... Much love...