He compares my vagina to other women?

Question

After having 3 kids, my husband and i tend to have sex problems, he loses it in the middle all the time. And gets extremely exhausted. Hed get frustrated and blames it on me that im way too loose, and my vagina doesn't feel good.

Hed tell me that he has never seen a vagina this loose. Comparing me to the women he's slept with. That mine doesn't feel good. He even say that no men will want to fuck me cause im too loose.

If im too loose, then how am i able to feel him? And still get him off after he rest from getting tired? He has once told me that its not me, its him. But he's always telling me that im the problem, cause im too loose.

Should i leave him?

Reaperbot666 · Accepted Answer

sounds like he is a jerk. I mean you have had 3 children after all. not like it will go back to being the same as it was before them. however their are some exercises that can help. to tighten or loosen a females vagina to some degree over time. might be worth looking into that maybe. his watching to much porn could also be part of the issue to some degree. because his dick is less sensitive during sexual interaction. so he feels less pleasure while engaging in sex with you. studies show that the more former partners a person has. the more likely they are to compare them to their current partner over time. also the longer a couple lives together. the less likely they will enjoy having sexual interaction with each other. if their sex life together becomes mundane or boring to some degree. which is why couples should try to spice things up once in a while to keep their sex life going together.

Dougzy · Accepted Answer

He has a problem you don`t by any chance overweight drink beer lack of exercise etc.
For you, I would prescribe an exercise diet and most of all pelvic floor exercises. nothing wrong with a little gripping strength hope this helps a professional would advise exactly the sam thing for major bucks this is free

Warmapplecrumble · Accepted Answer

Only way to tell is get a small dildo or insertion product and see if you can grip it with vagina wall.
If it is the vagina you can do squatting and look into other methods of helping your situation.

Was he like this before the children?
Are the children birthed through vaginal delivery?

If the problem is him then he needs his testosterone levels checked. You can increase with exercise, animal fats and meat intake.

sexphobe · Accepted Answer

wow he sounds like a real Prince Charming. You deserve better than someone who has the nerve to say things like that to your face. Give him a taste of his own medicine and complain about his floppy dick, see if that makes him feel good about himself.

laPrincesitaRoxi · Answer

Leave him, he’s abusive and you can find a good guy who will never talk to you that way who’s mature and loves you.
Your a mother and gave birth to his kids he should have much more respect for you than that.

Flower7 · Answer

Sounds like he needs to go to the doctor and get a prescription for erectile dysfunction medicine.

CriticalDiscourse · Answer

He sounds like a misogynistic cunt.

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

Sounds like you should go.

DrippingHoney · Answer

From my perspective, "too loose" means he's "too small".

Water_colour · Answer

Asshole of the universe.

lanadelrey25 · Answer

Oh honey, poison his dinner and then leave him. Or tinker with his brakes.

Browneye57 · Answer

You two need a marriage counselor. He's an abusive asshole.  Try there first. And google: kegels  Have a child, or several, has nothing to do with the tightness of your vagina.

R3DthatDude · Answer

No don’t leave your husband for that. As hurtful and disrespectful it is towards the mother of your own children. It’s petty compared to the repercussions of filing for a divorce, it’s not just you Who will suffer but the kids. Not only that you can talk that out or go see a marriage counselor. Don’t even think of divorce without exhausting all your options

Iron_Man · Answer

You don’t have to leave but this guys a big problem and you both probably need to go to a sex counselor

TheFlak38 · Answer

so instead of improving yourself you want to avoid responsibility as usual and leave him.

okokoududhsbkokok · Answer

Yes you should , u should a 100% do it this guy is too toxic dump him

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Sounds likd he blames you for his turn on problems thats very wrong sorry to hear

smellfarts · Answer

How long you marry?

allaboutyou2 · Answer

Absolutely, he obviously has no respect for you. No woman should settle for anything but the best.

kinkydrummer · Answer

Hell yes leave him. he's comparing you to other women this late in the game then he could be cheating on you

In_Trance · Answer

you're not too lose; he has issues

Valnac · Answer

He has the problem and likes to blame you. It can’t be his fault... I suggest you tell him that if you are too loose and can’t satisfy him then you want to leave, see what he has to say then!