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Sexual Health He doesn't want to have sex with condoms. What should I do?
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My friend with benefits hates condoms. He told me that because he is cut he has minimum pleasure from sex when wearing condoms. I am so so worried of getting pregnant, I can't go on pill or any hormonal contraception because of my health problems. He is still insisting on raw sex and I am scared that if I don't allow it he will leave me.
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25 80If you trust him not to give you any STDs (which is a lot of trust to place in someone! It could be trusting them with your life), then you could go on other birth control methods. But if this isn't right for you, then dont do it. And if you do decide on an alternative BC method, make sure he knows it might not be parmanent because you might have side effects you really don't like. Just do what's right for your body!
If you can't use other BC methods then don't risk it. Tbh he seems pretty toxic to me, maybe it's time to let him go. You don't need that type of energy in your life, I understand keeping that around but you need to only keep people around you that help you not hurt you. Not someone who will leave you over something petty like that
Lmao not have sex with him. Im circumcised and condom work just fine. I recommend skin condoms in non latex so its thinner and has better heat transfer. Feels great to me just make sure he gets one that's fits right. They gave regular and large sizes the right size makes a huge difference in comfort
No glove, no love, period. Move on if he refuses.
thts a major problem among people who love sex
No condom no sex...
Bullshit lol if you want a condom he must use a condom.
Break up with him, he's really selfish,
Then don't have sex with him, find urself a new stud. I don't like sex with condom aswell, I like to feel that wet pussy on my raw cock but if u got health problems with using a pill or hormones then one side should give up and that should be him.
Then km et him leave. Find a guy who can't get you pregnant or will try not to by wearing condoms.
Leave him
friends with benefits, is for losers
leave him, you will find a better guy.
Then let him leave cause if you get pregnant I promise he will leave he just wants to fuck you he doesn't want anything more if he did he'd make you his girl. You feel me! Fuck what he wants what do you want cause at the end of the day you have to do what's best for you
He sounds very selfish. Ditch him. You'll end up preggo, and he will end up running away. Avoid him!
Let him leave you. That's an unreasonable request and weirdly abusive. Find someone else. Wearing a condom is not hard. It's your vagina, you control what goes in. Losing this asshole would not be the tragedy you think it is.
Tell him to get clipped.
Raw dog him... straight in the ass
Then don’t do it. There are other birth control measures though. You should visit your local cvs.
Unless he has a vasectomy, then absolutely no
make him try this... (i am also cut) buy a lubricant that works with rubber, and before he put in the condom, put one or 2 drops on the the place the tip will be, just one or to drops, not more. Point appart, the one who can get pregnant with 18 and fuck her life is you, not him. so use whatever that make YOU feel comfortable. in another side, I know as a man raw is better, so if you are willing and only if you want and can... start taking contraception pills. but for you and him to understand, raw only after a month or 2 weeks you started and if you are taking them well, plus remember, pills do not help with venereal diseases. I feel him, but 'is that or nothing' is still an asshole move.