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Sexual Health Guys, He ejaculates more from masturbating? What could this mean about me?
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So my boyfriend and I have sex everyday. He cums inside my vagina and I always see it coming back out of me. Sometimes it's a huge amount and sometimes it's pretty small. But he also masturbates. Well, one day I saw a napkin that he used to jerk off with and the whole napkin was wet. We had already had sex that day and e came a lot from masturbating but I don't think he usually has big loads like that inside me. Is it possible that I'm not completely get him off? He always says that he cums really hard with me but I don't know. Why does he have bigger loads when he masturbates than he does when he has sex with me? I'm really curious.
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(21)question is, why does he need to masturbate, if he has you
I'm honestly not sure. I do everything he asks me to. Every fantasy he has, I do it. I have sex with him every day. A lot of the time we have sex twice a day. Im loud during sex and I suck his dick and let him eat me out. I do the kinky fetishes he tells me about. I don't know what more I could be doing. At this point if he's still masturbating a lot, could his orgasms just not be good during sex with me?
Because he feels like it... That is a good enough reason.
@Cycloteur could it mean he doesn't have good orgasms with me?
No it could mean he needs to release way more than he think you would like to and deal with it himself. Some guys needs it 5-6 times every day. Or he could be hung up with some habits from before your time and isn't thinking rationally about it. Talk to him about it in a non confronting manner to learn why he feels like doing it that much. Make sure to ask in a way which he has to explain his thinking, like how he feels about it and how he thinks you feel about it and follow with why do you feel like that. Tell him you would like do it for him if you are ok with that. Keep in mind that most guys have been masturbating daily since they where 12-14 and are really good at it the way it works for them so you need to pay attention to match him. Then maybe he will accept you into his mind and world and you will learn something real about him. But don't overthink it, everyone should masturbate regularly when they feel like it as it is healthy both physically and mentally. However it should never replace what you two have together.
If he still enjoys having sex with you or isn't making excuses not to then I wouldn't worry about it.
Maybe he enjoy masturbating thats why he
Probably doesn't mean anything
Nothing when my balls are full I cum a lot I jerk off to my wife
Probably nothing to worry about, probably edging when masturbating. Not sure why he needs to do that if he is getting sex
I don't know why he needs to masturbate if we have sex daily either.. could something be wrong with the sex I'm giving him? Is it possible my vagina just isn't good enough to give him fulfilling orgasms?
No he just probably has a high libido
I suspect the loads are the same size. Have him wear a condom and finish while he's inside you. Then check to see how much cum there is.
Try asking him if he wants to do other things with you so he doesn't have to jack off.
I do everything he asks me to. Every fantasy he has, I do it. I have sex with him every day. A lot of the time we have sex twice a day. Im loud during sex and I suck his dick and let him eat me out. I do the kinky fetishes he tells me about. I don't know what more I could be doing. At this point if he's still masturbating a lot, could his orgasms just not be good during sex with me?
That's weird, he should be satisfied with you. I don't know what his problem is.
Is it possible there's a problem with my vagina?
No I'm sure it's not that.
Maybe I'm not making him cum very hard?
It's not you, trust me, you sound like a sweetheart. It's his problem
When we ejaculate, there are other determining factors regarding the volume. If you see a lot on a napkin, it could be that it is just "spread out" by the way that the material absorbs liquid. Don't worry about it and don't read so much into it.
Oh okay. I didn't think about that. Thank you.