He gets hard just looking at me?

[Em6368]

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little while, and he's the sweetest, most incredible guy ever. We've never had sex, but he's CONSTANTLY hard around me. He took me out to breakfast the other day & we were just talking across the table & he's all like: "look down" & he was honestly as hard as a rock. Like he gets boners all the time, even when we aren't touching. We were at the mall today & even when I was across the store he was STILL hard just by looking at me... No physical contact at all. But I don't totally understand it. I can make him hard just by looking at him... is this a good or bad thing though? Like does it just mean that he's always super horny or what?

[electruxck]

it probably means that u get me all excited... not really a bad thing... when i was with my girlfriend i would get hard too... jst her touch... but that jst meant how lovely and amazing i thought she was...
he dont get hard around anyone except u... that means that he definitely loves u...

however, that is not to say he may jst be thinking of going into ur pants... thats also a possibility... so for now jst roll with it... u'll find out eventually 🙂

[GingerGuy]

This is why I believe women truly don't understand that we're visual because you're not wired the same way at all. It means your hot to him. But also probably really horny in general. I'm guessing you guys don't have sex or anything together? It's in no way a bad thing though.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Yeah my boyfriend was pike that in the beginning. Everything is new, infatuation levels are high, he's young and full of hormones - it'll pass with time.

[ThisDudeHere]

Pardon my asking, but what do girls assume when they notice that this phenomenon passes and the guy no longer gets 'ready' by just being in her presence anymore?

[RJGraveyTrain]

@ThisDudeHere Well for me it was no big deal. I was old enough to understand that this phase was going to pass.

[ThisDudeHere]

I see. All righty, thank you. Let's hope the girl I end up with, if I do, will think the same.

[RJGraveyTrain]

@ThisDudeHere It depends totally on how sensitive she is, where her self esteem is at. It can be a shock at first to go from constant horniness to not being nearly as "cocked and ready" if you're generally new to relationships. It's best to just be willing to elaborate and reassure to avoid misunderstandings.

[Stirado093]

No sweetie it means he is very attracted to you obviously very much sexually q

[Anonymous]

Because he wants in your pants!!! Once y'all have sex that will change tho

[DJMG_Music]

not always!

[1hellothere1]

Are you fucking kidding me I get hard on all the time looking at my girlfriend and I can't wait too have sex with her he is probably thinking about it when he has got one

[mrsticks]

I assume he's young, like you? Honestly, he's pretty hyper sexual it seems, but that's not something that's totally uncommon in young men.

[ThisDudeHere]

Why would it even cross your mind to assume that it may be a bad thing?

[SteelerNation50]

He's a young guy it's completely normal and will become less of an issue as he gets older.

[tflo95]

Were you liking twerking for him butt was naked in front of American Eagle or something cause that's the only explanation I can think of

[tflo95]

Also why is he telling you to look down at his hard dick while you eatin ya #3 with hash browns on the side. That's not something you usually just parade around telling people. That's that flex-a-muscle-so-ya-dick-go-down moment. But this dude apparently got no shame in lettin' the entire world see his damn Pinocchio grow

[Dudeman1234]

He's a teenage boy. That's how they all are. There will come a day when you wish your SO could have boners.

[trumpify]

I've had a similar problem with a girl I liked a lot, except she wasn't my girlfriend🙈😅

[Enochian]

it's normal

[johnnyboy1127]

tbh that could be the case I mean it just means he thinks ur sexy, but all the time could be the cause of a no reason boner and he just wants u to look lol here is a song by nsp talking about the no reason boner

[johnnyboy1127]

it won't let me put in the link so just look up no reason boner on YouTube it's by ninja sex party

[MistQueen23]

Omg someone else who listens to nsp lol my fave funny band. But yes I agree that could explain it.

[johnnyboy1127]

lol I love nsp and game grumps I just wish I could have seen them live but I couldn't get tickets

[MistQueen23]

same! They are close by me tomorrow night but still a few hours away and I have work the next day... ugh

[johnnyboy1127]

tickets were sold out for me

[COCOCHANEL]

that's pretty common. i noticed that a lot of guys are like that even into their 20s.

[utsav19]

that's normal

[Justinaveragedude]

It means you turn him on. Nothing wrong with that if he can behave.

[Soulife]

It means he's seventeen and has sex on his mind. But just in case, did you wear tones of cleavage or something?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It means he is constantly having sex with you in his mind.

[text3612379292]

yeah just by looking at you? you must really be hot!

[hotstuffSRD]

He sounds desperate tbh 😂

[scooogy]

It's rather that you are super sexy I'd say

[Snyxthetics]

i have that too - and i am 26 lol

[aaaaaggghh]

Maybe it's the sexual anticipation 😀

[Anonymous]

He likes you sexually

[Anonymous]

I'm 15 same problem with me... its not your fault though
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