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Sexual Health He got an erection during my massage, is he attracted to me?
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It happened yesterday after school. He's just a friend, nothing more for the moment. So we met after his workout and he had sore muscles so I proposed to give him a thigh massage. After a while he got an erection (he was just wearing compression shorts so it was obvious), I didn't say a word but stopped the massage so he looked very embarassed and said "sorry I couldn't help, I'm a boy". Is he attracted to me or is it a normal reaction during a massage? Do you think it's too close to sex to give a massage to just a friend?
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16 52I work at a spa, so I know a thing or two about massages.
Lots of people get aroused. It's natural, especially if the massage is really good... the mind starts to wander.
Additionally, you're a female and he seems like a young dude so if you're attractive enough it could have easily triggered his boner. It doesn't necessarily mean that he likes you but at the same it doesn't guarantee that he doesn't lol
It's normal.
Doesn't mean that he's into you.
No giving a massage is not "too close to sex".
That avatar though lol
I wonder what you touched and how
I think he finds you attractive, and if the massage is also good...
I don't think it's too close, it's just a massage... that is if it's JUST a massage
that area is sensitive.. so it can b bacause of that.. but i think you are definitely attracted to him.. just friends dont offer thigh massage.. ;)
A girl is touching his body in a nice way near his crotch. Natural reaction.
Maybe but you definitely aroused him.
He could be attracted to you or it could just be that a woman was massaging his thigh, only way to find out is to ask because it happens.
Very normal.
It's normal for that to happen. It doesn't necessarily mean he's attracted to you.
Very normal, when i was young the single surprise hug from a girl would make me have a erection...
Even when my crush hold my hand, or massaged me in the arm.
Things like that.
What were you wearing?
its a natural reaction for men when placed in a state of relaxation or almost a sleep state, it doesn't always happen but it can, it doesn't mean he's attracted to you. aside from that your a women massaging his thighs could be a possible trigger as well :D
Can't say that m.. when we work out our libido or testosterone shoots up... + a massage caused him to achieve a boner...
So came really say if he likes you or not... LOL
*can't
I can get a head massage from a girl and get an erection...
YES! Getting my hair washed before a hair cut might as well be a lap dance for me
Ah but which head? :D
... and I knew someone would ask that, @zoooot hahaha
massage can cause arousal
OF COURSE HE IS !!! It is a normal reaction, but for him to make it so obvious is a sure sign that he wanted to get a reaction out of you. My opinion is that you should arainge another workout and give him another massage and if the same thing happens you should immediately go down on him and see where it goes from there
There's a possibility, but it's difficult not to get an erection during a massage, so...
He wasn't getting an erection cause he likes you, he was getting an erection cause he was massaging close to his special parts.
You should've spun him like a dreidel on his knob. That'd be hilarious
Why his thighs? I would get a boner no matter what the girl looked like.