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Sexual Health He got an erection during my massage, is he attracted to me?
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It happened yesterday after school. He's just a friend, nothing more for the moment. So we met after his workout and he had sore muscles so I proposed to give him a thigh massage. After a while he got an erection (he was just wearing compression shorts so it was obvious), I didn't say a word but stopped the massage so he looked very embarassed and said "sorry I couldn't help, I'm a boy". Is he attracted to me or is it a normal reaction during a massage? Do you think it's too close to sex to give a massage to just a friend?
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16 52Any good massage would give me a erection.
I remember seeing a show can't remember what show it was it's been a long time ago now. But supposedly the police had a man in questioning him over pedophilia and they were giving him a test showing him pictures of kids to see if he would get a erection and I was like are you kidding just because a man could or would get a erection in the presents of a nude photo doesn't mean he's attracted to kids one bit. It could be the nudity or it could be his mind was on sex in general or could be a simple undesirable uncontrollable erection end of story. Men in general especially when they are younger men catch erections for no reason at all and even wake up with erections out of the sleep. A simple erection doesn't mean there is attraction at all. Now was there attraction from your guy friend? Maybe maybe not only he knows the answer to that.
Maybe he is... or sometimes it happens due to touches...
It is completely normal.
It sounds like the beginning of a porno.
Erection is a natural response. Just something that happens without thought. Like everyone else said, you massaged a sensitive area , which is another reason.
Who knows? Maybe your hot? I've had interactions with hot girls but doesn't mean I wanna date them.
I think you got a crush on that guy.
most times rubbing thighs would lead to arousal. the fact that it is a friend could mean that he is attracted to you, and then also it could just mean that he wants to fuck you.
It's not the boner that tells me he likes you... It's him asking you for a massage :D he trusts you
Not necessarily that he is attracted to you, boners are out of control we can't prevent them.
Sometimes sensual message can cause arousal but that doesn't mean he is attracted to you
The legs are very sensitive abd to get a massage from an attractive woman is a sure way go get aroused in seconds. He must have felt great with your hands abd there's also a possibility he finds you attractive.
Awww gosh
Yes we loved getting massage from girl
And yes that makes ur turn on
It can be either. Spontaneous erections are common, or it could be that he was enjoying the closeness with you, and his biology responded
It's very possible he is attracted to you.. however getting a massage around the tight with short s on is very erroneous zones
It s normal. If he is a healty guy when u touch to his leg he can feel this. He can t do something for this. I t s normal reaction and believe me he wanted more but he was embaressed. Next time he can t stop himself.
It is normal
Most guys with high testosterone would get an erections l if a girl would touch that area. Imagine if someone touched you in that area. Also it's easy for a guy's mind to go astray when he is with a girl who is doing that. If he likes you, we'll maybe but that massage is not a definite yes. There are types of girls you would have sex with (or get an erection for) and others you would date.
you slut...
No he's just male.
It's s natural reaction, women are the same way, but he could very well have been attracted to you.
He is a pervert... call the cops immediately