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Sexual Health He heard me say the safe word and continued?
Anjellygirlyeah Xper 7
Two months with my boyfriend and he's heavily into rough sex and he's very dominant. I won't get too into it but we created a safe word and the last time i was with him i didn't want to have sex but slowly gave in to it and at one point i said the safe word and he ignored it so I just laid there trying so hard to relax bc I knew if i tensed up it would hurt more. Then today the first time we fucked I didn't want to so I just watched tv as he fucked me and he didn't mind that i wasn't enjoying it. He just wanted to get off. Then the second time I told him i didn't want to and he said i was gonna take it whenever he wanted some. And blah blah i think it was his dick talking but later is was getting rough and i really wanted him to stop after i kept pushing him off and i finally said the safe word like 5 times and he heard me bc he repeated it and asked me if i wanted to stop and i said yes stop and he was getting off on me telling him to stop. He told me to tell him to stop and i did and he moaned. He tried repositioning himself and i quickly closed my legs but he's bigger than me so he was able to force my legs open. I was literally saying please and i was starting to cry sorta and thats when he stopped. I was upset and he kept trying to kiss me and i didn't want to and he grabs my face forcing me to kiss him and i say i dont want to and that im serious and he says he's serious too i better fucking kiss him. And the whole time he's squeezing my face. I dumped him. Long story short he apologized saying he thought i was liking it and he would never let that happen again. That he won't ever be a pig to me. But that was before i told him we werent compatible bc he clearly wanted sex so much more than i did that he was willing to go past my comfort zone. Then i told him if he wanted me as much as he said he wouldn't have made me uncomfortable. Then he kept texting me and it seemed genuine. I could feel it so now we're on a break bc i just want to clear my mind. I really want to be with him
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He says we dont have to have sex. That he loves me for me. He cried on the phone when i told him i was on my way to the mall bc it was originally us going to the mall together. He was sad i was going without him. Thats when i said i was going alone bc there was no more us. He cried more. BUT like i said we're on break
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11 19Girl run!!!
That sounds a lot like rape tbh. If u really want him back I would wait some more. And if u do get back together and he try's it agin punch him as hard as u can in the balls than go into a room and lock the door so he can't get in. If I where u tho I wouldn't go back to him
I haven't replied to him at all since i told him we were on break amd he keeps sending me texts about wanting to be with me and that he realized he forgot to treat me like the angel i am. And he called me this morning and sent me more text apologizing and that he still wants to go through with our plans of movinf out of state. I think tomorrow or later today I'll have one last talk and lay down the law. Tell him how its gonna be and as soon he fucks up thats it. I don't know
Look u can do a lot better than a guy who forgot how to treat u right. Again if I where u I would just text him and say there is no chance of us being together at all. Then go and find a guy who cares enough to stop when u say stop.
U r worth more than that
Repeatedly blows through safe words:
- he's either a nutcase, or he's completely out of control
Do not date him again. How do you 'not realize they don't like it' that's the whole fucking point of the safe word.