He keeps saying he wants to wait for sex?

Been seeing this guy for 2 months and he keeps saying he wants to wait for sex and wants it to be special. He isn't giving a time frame when he's ready and doesn't make a move. I'm so confused? Most guys expect sex by the third date
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  • Uff leave him... it's so fkin huge turn off. Lol

  • Give him more time. 2 months is a very short time for getting to know each other well.

  • Hopefully he is what you think is a rare keeper lol.

  • He is sleeping around

  • Does it bother you? Do you want sex with him now?

  • He seems sweet. He must really care about you. From what I've seen and experienced, a lot of men want nothing to do with you if you don't put out. This guy cares about you. Be patient! It could be the best thing you can do.

  • this is how you know that a guy is with u because he like you and not there for sex u should be glad his type are rare.

  • 2 months wow!
    Usually kissing on the first day and by second and third date I'm already with the lady I'm talking to.

    With him saying he wants to wait as a lot of factors to play in.
    1) nervousness
    2) size
    3) endurance
    4) experience

    And possibly more but if he's really serious about it then he really wants to wait for that moment to honestly share with you. Some people connect through sexual energy.

    Nervousness is self explanatory
    Size if he has ever seen porn then yes this will always make him feel inferior to himself and feel like he's not worthy. Sounds stupid but it's true with the psychological impact on the brain from just watching porn is insane.

    It all comes down to him.
    Personally even if he isn't giving it o would of expected some type of foreplay or something because we humans love affection and the sense of touch is very sensual and both parties love being touched.

    • That was suppose to be a number 3 not an emoji I apologize sincerely.

  • Well he might just be shy about pleasuring you

  • Yes i wanna woth you

  • You sound like a giver. He's a waste. Let me and a few of my boys help you out.

  • Expect by the third date you say, sounds like you have the handbook

  • A few cases of blue balls could speed things up. Make out and grinding without a day planer involved could be the special touch he wants.

  • What if that's just what he believes is right?

  • Maybe he is shy and want you to do the first move