He sent me a dick pic, but I like him. What to do?

Met him online. He' s younger than me (28, i'm 35) but we had great communication and chemistry. Talked for about a week but faced difficulties meeting in person, due to covid restrictions. He started getting more intimate online and I explained that I prefer live interaction and not sexting. He apologized and told me he understood. However after two days, he sent me a dick pic, asking if I liked it. I didn't reply and we only said goodmorning the day after. nothing more. I really like him and don t think he s that creepy kind of guy, however if I talk to him first I will show him I accepted that incident. What should I do?
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  • First, you probably want to say you didn't expect that but he has a nice dick. (You know how fragile male ego's are.)

    Then, tell him you would prefer for him NOT to do that because you don't want that on your phone because you always lose your phone and wouldn't want someone to get your phone and find that on it. (Or whatever excuse you think will work.)

    Probably want to make clear that you won't be reciprocating for the same concerns, assuming you don't want to send him nudes as well.

    Then let him know, you are not rejecting him and that live interactions are much more fun and way more likely with you than sexting. Maybe one more small compliment on his dick before you move on to other topics.

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  • I think he’s just a typical horny guy online (like many) that’s just looking to find girls that will give him sexual relief. I do not think at all that he sees you as some potential partner or possible girlfriend type of thing at all. Even if you think you guys had a “great” connection.. sometimes they really go out of their way to be so kind to see if in the end they will get a little something.

    If you guys continue to talk for longer then “maybe” in the future he might see you as something more serious (and that’s a big maybe) but as of now from what you’ve said, it really seems he’s just searching for which girls regardless of age, are willing to share naked stuff. Very typical.

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  • I don't know what the customs might be on Cyprus, but if you really like him, try giving him a second chance. You know how those young bucks can get :- )
    Maybe he really needs your sensual, yet calming influence to mature a bit.

    If you talk to him, be sure the talk includes a reference to that incident. If he takes it in stride, I guess you have a winner.

  • What is your reaction? That'll determine what you do next.

    • I told him that I wasn't expecting that photo and he told me he knew that, but hecwae wanted me to see how he was for me. I replied nothing because I felt he didn't respect my boundaries. However, apart from that, we had a great communication which is rare to find and he was such a kind humorous person. Should I give it another shot? On the other hand, he only texted me goodmorning the day after and not a single apology. Why? Is he ashamed or simply doesn't care?

    • I don't know his motivations. It sounds like if you call him out for violating your boundaries and make it clear next time you're gone with no do overs, you might want to give it another chance.

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  • Forward it to his mother including his details as the sender, and ask she go through the lessons on how to treat a human being again.

  • I would not bring it up but talk to him again and bring up a different subject. If he keeps going back to a sexual conversation then that will tell you that all he's interested in is sex and consider moving on.

  • Send him a dickpic back to assert dominance.

    • Hahaha 😂

    • He sent me a dick pic, but I like him. What to do?

  • You have a pen pal, nothing else. You simply cannot forge a relationship by texting. PERIOD.
    Tell him 'don't send dick pics you idiot'. The has no clue what makes women tick. You got yourself a greenhorn, a noob.

  • Sounds a lot like a red flag tbh. It seems like you made it clear you dont wanna sext yet he still gave you the cock surprise treatment to get you engage in what he wants. Kind of disrespectful.

  • Was he cut or not? 😗

  • Tell him how you feel

    He sent me a dick pic, but I like him. What to do?
  • tell him you appreciate the pic, but it's not what you are looking for in him

  • He wanted to show you how he wants you... don't be so hard... life is too short.
    How is he sized?

  • Well are you turned off by what he did?

  • Where were you hoping this would lead?

  • Show him a topless photo