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He says I'm really tight and that he likes fucking me. But sometimes we'll be going at it and all of a sudden he slips out and it kinda hurts. I don't think I'm extremely too wet or anything like that. Is it normal for this to happen quite a bit or am I too loose or is my vagina nit "grippy" enough? Or is he losing his erection inside me?
Also, if a guy loses his erection inside of a vagina or during a blowjob, does that mean he isn't attracted to you?
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0 28You have lose vagina
both! you need to grip well and he is not enough erect. its his issue more than yours.
Why isn't he completely erect? He used to stay completely hard in me when we first started having sex. We've been seeing each other for 3 months, him going soft has recently started.
loosing confidence, losing ability, too much tension, depression, lack of concentration etc. Give more detail to know it.
So it's not me?
I see 75-25 so its you too.
I'm worried he doesn't think I'm attractive or good at sex anymore. He never lost his erection when we first started having sex a couple months ago
your details are not enough to say its that, there are many ways to determine that.
are you in my follow list?
You said it's 75-25. What would be the issue with me? I'm curious
Its better talk in private, if you want you can join me for the discuss.
Does he wear a condom during sex thats why he gets soft however im not saying that you should take that risk?
We don't use condoms. I'm on birth control and we don't have stds. Neither of us are sleeping with other people and yes I know that for a fact
Its strange that he gets soft maybe he has a blood flow problem.
We have been hooking up for 3 months. The first couple months this never really happened. This has just recently started happening. Is my vagina not feeling good for him anymore?
Or maybe he realized that he just wasn't attracted to me?
It could be that or it could be that he's libido went down.
Speak to him about it.
Ask him if he lost attraction for you.
He says he hasn't but he's not going to tell me the truth about that
He says he's still turned on by me but I think he just doesn't wanna hurt my feelings
I see perhaps you should do whats best for both of you. Try to focus on things within your control like dressing nice and being hygienic.
It’s not unusual, sometimes the erection goes down a little from too long doing it, or too wet. Maybe have him wear a cock ring
Maybe, it could also mean he is not that experienced.
Is he "small" ? I hear that happens a lot with small guys.
No he isn't