He wants ONLY ANAL?

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I made a mistake of having anal sex as the first form of sexual act between me and this guy. Now it is a month later and literally all we ever had was anal sex.
We never had regular sex, nor oral. He never even touched my pussy. It's basically: I take my clothes off, get on all four in front of him, arch and wait for him to enter my anus.
He doesn't even do a lot of preparation, just fingers me a little bit, doesn't even lick my asshole to relax me, (he DOES use a lot of lube, though), he doesn't even wear a condom, just enters me raw, fucks me jackrabbit style and cums in me, wich I also don't like. Then, the job is done, he just leaves.

I told him this bothers me, he said: "No, it doesn't, I saw that your pussy was soakin wet", I said: "Yeah, it is wet, but I never orgasm and it bothers me". What should I do?

bbch25 · Accepted Answer

Stop bending over and sticking your ass out for him!
Tell him to use his fingers on your vagina, use his dick in your vagina, and to have real sex.

The fact he thinks he can just say "you were wet, obviously you enjoyed it" shows how selfish and much of a dick he is.

You should dump him otherwise, get someone who treats you properly. Some people are into anal, totally cool, but there should still be respect, even if you only wanted anal too, it should still be about making you BOTH feel good, he isn't caring about the latter.

XRabbitHeartX · Accepted Answer

That is highly abnormal. Most guys I think will definitely not just expect anal sex but will also want vaginal and oral sex. If he doesn't want to try anything else then you have to decide if you'll be happy with this for the rest of your life. If not, leave. Never be in a relationship with a person wanting to change them.

SovereignessofVamps · Accepted Answer

Why does he totally ignore you, like has he always been like this about your orgasms? Sounds like anal is the non issue, he is who he is

Dim1213 · Accepted Answer

Break up with him cause he does not care about your feelings and your pleasure. He most likely will never change and he does not want any kids or risk of kids. I'm guessing that you two might be freindsWB. Though I could be wrong.
If you want try taking charge in the bed room. Only reward him after he pleasures you.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

I could be wrong but it sounds to me like you're literally his booty call. It also sounds like you're not okay with that. Talk to him:

UnknownReflection · Answer

Dump him. There is a lot of issues in this relationship. You just turned to be his sex slave. You deserve better and more.

tarrycat · Answer

Tell him to date a man then. Post him. He could just as well become gay (no offense to gay men). To me it's not attractive AT ALL. I will think he has gay tendencies to be honest. If I am not comfortable with it, I will refuse to. It's YOUR body girl, he either needs to RESPECT it or bugger off.

burlen · Answer

He doesn't know to fuck a woman. Simple. Find a guy who knows how to bring a woman to orgasm.

As a way forward, stand your grounds by telling this guy you have been a great partner to please him sexually. You him to do the same. If he doesn't, cut him loose.

Elarra · Answer

That almost sounds a little gay. I know guys who like anal, but not who prefer it over regular sex... You sound more like his sex toy for him to get off on.

CalebJay18 · Answer

firstly, you need to stick up for yourself. secondly you need break up with him if he won't respect you. just because anal was the first sexual act, does NOT mean it will be your only. he's just an asshole, maybe that's why he only wants anal...

i1T2daty · Answer

He should at least give you a reach around and stroke your clit so you cum while he's fucking your ass. He'll even like it since when you're in that tight of an area you can really feel the spasms of a woman's orgasm. I often cum feeling that

CapnHawk · Answer

Find someone compatible that will make love to you and not just f***you in the a**. You deserve to be made love to, not treated like a piece of meat or a semen recepticle.

likitb4istickit · Answer

Well, it should be obvious. If the sex sucks to you dump him and find someone else more compatible (ie a normal guy that likes to eat pussy, get a BJ, and fuck the pink hole too).

motassim · Answer

an undercover gay !

lukeedmonton · Answer

Cut him off from your but. Plane and simple. If he is petty enough to get but hurt (haha pun) about it, maybe it's time for a new bf? Also have you seen Dead Pool? Try it with him ; )

Dragan · Answer

Dump him.

JustCallMeLeon · Answer

You are free to walk out any time... Staying there and letting him having his way with you... why? You deserve better.

Naughtyboy71 · Answer

Does he eat your pussy

Cowboy6666 · Answer

Dump him. He is selfish. Make me your boyfriend instead. 😜

Shawn58 · Answer

That's weird that guy is using you

Joker_ · Answer

Yeah--he only wants anal

Elliot0_07 · Answer

If you like it or not, it's your job to satisfy his sexual needs. Just bend over and keep doing it to him. He's only asking for anal sex, and the only thing you have to do is opening your legs.

Anonymous · Answer

He's either under the impression you like this treatment (which turns him on) or he's satisfied with you putting up with it.

Anonymous · Answer

This guy is a completely selfish lover. He doesn't care one bit about your pleasure. You've also explicitly communicated to him that this bothers you, and yet he continues his behavior. Why do you continue to allow him pleasure when you're not getting any? You need to stop seeing him, plain and simple. His behavior is not going to change.

Anonymous · Answer

You're a good girl.

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